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Do you procrastinate? If so, how's your anxiety? Many people are surprised to learn that procrastination and anxiety are often closely linked. Procrastination can be a defense mechanism to gain temporary relief from anxiety as you avoid anxiety-provoking tasks. Unfortunately, procrastinating can ultimately increase anxiety because of the added pressure and stress it adds to your already busy life.
Yesterday afternoon, I unraveled. I couldn't move, I couldn't eat, all I could do was crawl in bed and breathe. And that's how I spent the rest of the day. What brought on this surge in depression? A lot of things, not all of which were in my control, but was it my fault I fell apart? Absolutely. I hadn't been taking adequate measures to deal with depression in proportion to the increasing mental toll of the Coronavirus. Sometimes, even us mental health bloggers do not take as much care of our mental health as we should -- that's how deep-rooted the stigma against mental illness is.
After being diagnosed with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), I went through several stages before coming to full acceptance of the disorder. I don't know what it is about life after an official diagnosis, but I experienced everything from liberating aha moments to depression and despair.  Everyone processes their emotions differently post-diagnosis—so I thought it would be helpful to share my timeline for those who've been recently diagnosed and/or struggling.  The stages are listed in the order they were experienced.
Can I share a fundamental, irrevocable truth that you just might need to hear? Your personal identity is more than an eating disorder. Even if you cannot imagine a life without this illness right now, I want you to know that recovery is attainable, and you are capable of existing in a world that does not revolve around your eating disorder.
When you live in the present and focus on the now, your self-esteem will grow. Poor self-esteem is often accompanied by worrying about the future or getting stuck in regrets of the past. I want to share how I learned to practice this skill. Living in the now can be challenging at first but you will find it worth the effort as your self-esteem grows.
I joined HealthyPlace a year ago as a way to better understand my posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) diagnosis. Writing about the impact PTSD has had on my life has been therapeutic, and I've learned a lot about myself in the process. I've also found great comfort in the online mental health community HealthyPlace has provided.
Living with dissociative identity disorder (DID) can feel like a burden in more ways than one. In addition to dealing with the multiple conversations happening in your mind, you need to maintain your “outer shell,” or the parts that other people interact with the most. What do you do when the people around you are unaware of your condition?
Trying to stop binge eating at night isn't solely a matter of willpower -- especially when you've suffered or are suffering from an eating disorder. I know firsthand how distressing this behavior can be for those of us who are struggling to take control back from this food-centric disease, but the tips I am about to share can help.
When I first read online that once I started really digging in to my recovery, things would get worse before they got better, I thought I understood. I thought it meant that acknowledging my pain would cause me more pain at first, but then it would heal and I would be "better." I knew that was a naive way of looking at things, but I still believed that would generally be the process. Boy, was I wrong.
In recent years, I have become very interested in learning more about how what I eat affects my mood and mental health. More specifically, I have found it helpful to learn about how diet can affect anxiety.

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Jessica Kaley
Susan, I found myself unexpectedly single at age 60 two years ago so I understand your worry about a future alone. Living in the present brought me to the place I am today, and I've really never been happier now that I'm putting myself first and learning to love each day. I wish you the best on your journey.
Susan
This helped me tremendously!! Thank you!! I’m contemplating divorcing my husband who had an affair and now I find out he’s still communicating with her. I find myself stuck on the past. As she mistreated me as she had the affair with my husband. And I find myself worried abt the future never being on my own. I will live in the PRESENT!!
Spencer
About three years ago to the day I left a mentally abusive relationship. Even before I ended leaving I would find myself saying “I’m sorry.” It could be a small insignificant thing like putting away the dishes right when they were done. It became a way for me to avoid conflict. Now my current girlfriend understands why I do it. However we could just have a normal conversation about the clouds and I still find myself saying “I’m sorry” or “I’m sorry I should let you talk” while she tells me “it’s okay” or that “there is nothing to be sorry about” I know deep down after dealing with the mentally abusive ex I know my current girlfriend is right but I always think it’s better to say something than nothing at all out loud.
Kat
This includes guys who make a lot of social media "feminist" noise about how awful other men are. Especially if it's the exact misogyny you see from them behind closed doors.
M
I too am considered to be high” functioning (as per my pdoc) but I can tell you with absolute certainty that’s a misnomer ‘cause it is definitely NOT my baseline or natural state. I really have to work at being (or appearing to be) functional. It’s absolutely exhausting. I often lie about how I am really doing. It’s a way of avoiding embarrassment or negative judgement, especially by others who don’t have a clue what it’s like to walk a mile in my shoes.