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Learning to trust yourself after trauma can feel like walking through a minefield. In my experience, if I take one wrong step, I fear my entire life will somehow implode. Even the most minor decisions send me into a fight-or-flight spiral. I deny my intuition and operate out of fear, craving a sense of security and certainty one simply cannot have in life.
Looking for a new job is never easy. Being unemployed and job hunting is even worse. Unfortunately, I have been in both scenarios in the last couple of years. Getting lost in the cumbersome tasks of revamping my resume and applying for jobs is dispiriting. Thus, it becomes easy for my depression to set in quickly. 
It took me several years of personal growth and cultural awareness to realize there are systemic barriers to eating disorder treatment. My battle with anorexia was painful and tumultuous, but access to therapeutic interventions made the healing journey feel possible. While I am immensely grateful for this, I also cannot brush aside another conspicuous reality: Eating disorder treatment methods were conventionally built for the patients like me—and that’s a serious problem. This harrowing mental illness can hook its claws into anyone, so we need to talk about eating disorder treatment barriers in order to make healing resources more accessible and inclusive for all sufferers out there.
Verbal abuse can happen anywhere, at any time. Unfortunately, retail and service workers are often the target of verbal abuse. No one deserves to be called names, insulted, or threatened, especially while doing their job. Sadly, verbal abuse of retail and service workers is becoming more frequent in many restaurants and stores. 
One thing I’ve learned about having schizoaffective disorder is how to use coping skills for my symptoms. Some of the skills I’ve developed myself, and some I’ve learned in therapy. Here are some of the coping skills I’ve learned for the symptoms of my schizoaffective disorder. (Note: This post contains a trigger warning.)
When you are constantly anxious, it is hard to confront traumatic experiences and process the emotions that are associated with them. What can end up happening as a result is that you may avoid dealing with the situation.
Do you feel frustrated when people can't pronounce your name correctly? I can relate because my name is unique, and most people mispronounce it. Worse, instead of learning the correct pronunciation, they conveniently shorten or change it without my consent. If people can't pronounce your name correctly, read on to know how you can cope with the consequent distress.
Times get tough, and I'm not immune to wanting to shut the world out when it feels too loud, too heavy, or simply too much; that's when distraction and escapism come into play. Sometimes, a little mind vacation is needed. Just like physical vacations, it can be helpful to mentally check out momentarily to rest and reset. But as with most things in life, there is a balance, and tipping the scales can have harmful consequences.
I've found that nature provides greater self-esteem. Self-esteem is a delicate yet pivotal aspect of one's wellbeing, particularly for those navigating the challenges of mental health. In my personal journey, I have found that nature is a sanctuary that extends a comforting hand toward healing and heightened self-esteem. 
One of the toughest battles I have faced in my journey is the shame and stigma in recovery. For years, I carried the burden of shame, believing that my gambling addiction was a reflection of my moral failure. Society's misconceptions about gambling addiction only fueled these feelings, leaving me trapped in a cycle of self-blame and isolation. Society views gambling addiction as a matter of poor self-control. Most people still believe it is a choice and people can stop whenever they want, which is not the case. What shame and stigma in recovery do is disempower people and even hinder their ability to recognize addiction as a complex issue that requires support and treatment.

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Lisa
OMG thank you for this. This is spot on. I I have now figured when my head gets in the way of THEIR behavior I need to step back and say I AM ENOUGH. I have done the best I could in the challenging circumstances that we dealt with early on. My kids are now 39 and 35. They will figure it out. My grandchildren are all that matter to me and my relationship with them. I just need to keep my experience and advice to myself LOL I just smile and wave now. Thank you for letting me vent:)
Samantha Holton
Our daughter is 15 and we are getting her ready for her baptism at Easter sunday mass.Instead of the white poofy baptism dress,she chose the baptism gown with the boufant shoulders and lace trim down the front,with the matching bonnet.She will wear the lace anklets and the white maryjane shoes with the gown and bonnet.Her baptism diaper is 10 plies thick and will be pinned on her with pink diaper pins and she chose a pair of babyprint rubberpants to wear over it with a white tee shirt as her top.I am so looking forward to dressing her in her outfit and having her like a 'baby' for her baptism and all day on Easter sunday!
Pamela
It's Sunday after ok . I loaded my car with laundry, we t to the store for soap and kling frees. I was in line and all of a sudden my insides were shaking and it felt hot. I made my purchase ran to my car in the driver's seat my hands started shaking, my whole body was so nervous, I was thinking of how much I have in my bank account how much fuel to put in my car how much to spend on the machines all of a sudden while at the gas pump thinking about my budget, my whole self started to freak out. I put the gas pump away drove home got into my house thinking this is the worst and longest attack I've ever had. I took one of my anxiety pills but right now I'm scared and crying what the heck is wrong with me. I'm still shaking it's been about 45 minutes.
Cheryl Wozny
Hello, I am Cheryl Wozny, current author of the Verbal Abuse in Relationships blog. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry that you've experienced this at school. No one should be the target of hurtful comments or have their feelings dismissed. You are entitled to feel safe and respected by friends and other students while at school. I encourage you to reach out to your guidance counselor or a student liaison if you have one available at your school. It's important to remember that your feelings are valid, and no one should make you think otherwise.
Michael
Hope your left her, very toxic for you. Hope you are ok and be proud bro