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Common Transgender Myths People Believe

May 16, 2016 Becky Oberg

There are common transgender myths people believe. With recent events thrusting transgendered individuals into the spotlight, my Facebook page has lit up with comments on the subject. A common thread of the transphobic posts is based on common transgender myths people believe. Here are three of the most common transgender myths people believe.

Transgender Myth #1: It's the Parents' Fault

One of my Facebook friends said that no child would choose to be transgender, and that transgenderism is the result of parents forcing their child to be the opposite sex. This is not true. A child is born with both a biological gender and a gender identity. This is not something the child chooses.

Little Johnny is born a boy, but he may not identify as a boy. He may identify as a girl and have a feeling that he was born in the wrong body. That's as much his parents' fault as his biological gender. It's all determined by the androgens a child is exposed to in the womb, known by age two or three, and firmly established by age six--that's the medical consensus. The parents do not dictate their child's gender identity.

This transgender myth also ignores the fact that many parents reject their transgendered child. Many parents try to force their child to conform to their biological gender through reparative therapy. When this fails, many throw their child out. The parents would not do this if their child's gender identity were their fault. In addition, there is a huge difference between accepting a child's transgender identity and pressuring a child to be something they're not. In fact, pressuring the child to be something they're not accounts for the high suicide rate among transgendered youth.

Transgender Myth #2: Transgendered People Are Sexual Perverts

More Republican Congressmen have been found guilty of sexual misconduct than transgendered people. It is a myth that transgendered people are sexual perverts. Not all transgendered people are drag queens. Not all transgendered people are drugged-up prostitutes. Not all transgendered people are hypersexual. If anything, those traits are more noticeable in the cisgender (non-transgender) community.

Do you believe the stigmas and myths about transgendered people? There are several common transgender myths you may believe and not know it. Check this out.There is a common belief that if we allow transgendered individuals to use the restroom of the gender they identify with, we will allow transgendered individuals to sneak into the restrooms to molest and rape children. What keeps them from doing that now? Cisgendered individuals who want to molest and rape will not be stopped by laws governing who can use which bathroom. In fact, transgendered individuals are often assaulted in restrooms far more frequently than they commit assault--there are no known incidents of a transgendered individual assaulting someone in a restroom, but there are many cases of a transgendered individual being assaulted in a restroom and defending themselves.

Transgenders have been using the bathrooms of the gender they identify with for years. We haven't noticed it because they usually look like the gender they identify with thanks to medical treatment. It's a simple solution, North Carolina--let people use the restroom their current genitals align with.

Transgender Myth #3: Transgenderism Is a Choice

Little Johnny does not decide one day that he feels like a girl, and another day he feels like a boy. A transgendered child has a consistent gender identity--it just happens to be different than their biological gender. A tomboy or effeminate male who grows out of it is not transgender--they simply have some gender nonconforming behavior. A true transgendered individual feels like they were born in the wrong body and wants to adapt to the body they identify with. It is not a choice.

I, myself, am a gender-questioning individual. Ever since I was a child I have preferred traditionally male activities, to the point where I wanted to be a boy so everyone would stop trying to force me to identify as a girl. I remember leaping for joy when I heard gender reassignment was possible. But my religion forbade this, and I went through puberty as a woman. I still have a considerable amount of masculine traits and preferences, a somewhat male appearance, and am bisexual. I suffer from a great deal of conflict between my gender identity and my religion, something I wouldn't wish on anybody.

No one in their right mind would choose to be transgendered. Who would choose to be at higher risk of assault, higher risk of harassment, higher risk of discrimination, higher risk of rejection? Who would choose to feel like they have to choose between what they believe and who they are?

These are three common transgender myths people believe. It's time to address and dispel these myths. It's not the parents' fault. Transgenders are not sexual perverts. It's not a choice. It's simply a fact of life.

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APA Reference
Oberg, B. (2016, May 16). Common Transgender Myths People Believe, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2019, September 16 from https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/recoveringfrommentalillness/2016/05/common-transgender-myths-people-believe



Author: Becky Oberg

Stephanie
says:
May, 19 2016 at 2:48 pm
You say that "It’s a simple solution, North Carolina–let people use the restroom their current genitals align with".

This is not a good solution since not all trans people can go the route of genital surgery, for various reasons, and to follow your "solution" would be to cause us - transgender nonetheless - people real harm. The result would be to put transwomen in the same situation as it is now, one of being forced to use a restroom not matching our gender identity and would place us in the same position of being exposed to violence we currently face. Better to allow those of us presenting as a woman to use the restroom that matches our current identity.

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