At the beginning of May, my Twitter stream was on fire with angry ADHDers. They were sick and tired of ADHD being stigmatized and they weren’t going to take it any more! And what had set their tweets a’fire? A YMCA ad.
It seemed that some ADHD women were upset that not only were they not represented in the ad, but their ADHD children were mocked. ADHD men in good shape were upset they were classed with the guys who used Facebook. Facebook users were upset they were depicted wearing dorky shorts. Playstation users were upset they were lumped in with the pip-squeaks they usually mug for lunch money. X-Box users were outraged to be linked with Playstation users because clearly some game systems are better than others, yet the ad didn’t state which. Twittle was flying from virtual mouths; everybody was upset.
I’m sorry. I’m exaggerating. Only the ADHD folks were complaining.
Gist of YMCA ADHD Ad
In an effort to drive new membership into their centers, the Vancouver YMCA released a set of ads that played on nostalgia and tweaked our modern sensibilities with a wink. The ad in question showed a 50 year old photo of some scrawny white kids in gym class. Above them read “Before video games, before Facebook, before Ritalin, there was basketball”.
Oh, I get it… We are more sedentary now and exercise less than we did in the past. And the Ritalin gag obviously is poking fun of fidgety kids being over-medicated instead of being given a ball to play with. There have certainly been a lot of abuses in schools with Ritalin over the years. Of course, not every kid taking Ritalin is one of those cases (engaged in Ritalin abuse). Some of them have a bonafide disorder. Whoops. I can see why people were upset.
Hyped Up Over ADHD Stigma
Still, some people were acting as if the YMCA had lined up all ADHD folk against a wall and hung scarlet “A”s around their necks before shouting “Fire!”. Some of those tweets were eyebrow raising. People were out for blood. Was the ad really that bad?
Is this the solution to greater understanding? We rage together as a mob and strike fear into the hearts of advertisers and comedians who dare address ADHD lightly? The powers of political correctness are on the move. There shall be no jokes about ADHD!
Hold on, though. Aren’t we the people who sometimes get on the wrong bus, put the milk away in the cupboard, show up to meetings at the right time but on the wrong day, and go to the store to buy everything but what we went there for‽ If we can’t have a laugh at ourselves, how are we to cope with our incredible tendency to goof up 50 times a day? How are we to convince others that we are perfectly normal, if just a wee bit absentminded and scatterbrained?
The YMCA pulled the ad the very day it aired, then was barraged by angry folks who demanded a public apology. Well, they were contacted by two people at any rate.* Everybody else just ranted on Twitter and in blogs. I can’t help but think that it would have been better to organize a letter writing or phone calling campaign. We could have encouraged the YMCA to release a new ad that intelligently targeted ADHD kids. Perhaps it could have featured a mother overwhelmed by her whirling dervish of a cooped up child. Or can’t we tease that hyperactive kids have excess energy and respond well to exercise? Must all mental health issues be treated somberly?
Instead of tweeting speculations about why the YMCA waited two weeks to formerly apologize, maybe it would be better to use our energy to fight the adamant teachers and doctors who still claim that ADHD doesn’t exist, or to challenge school systems that don’t accommodate the needs of ADHD children. We need to fight ignorance and intolerance, not excoriate others for public gaffes. Perhaps the collective pot shouldn’t be commenting on the kettle’s color. In the end, if we jump down people’s throats whenever they make mistakes regarding ADHD, all we’ll do is silence the discussion and teach them to fear us. Don’t you agree?
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*This was according to Charlene Giovannetti-King the Vice President of Funds Development for the Vancouver YMCA. Some people claimed to have emailed the YMCA, but they received form replies.
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