ADHD and the Risk of Antisocial Behavior

Written by Kathleen Ross-Kidder, Ph.D.

Is there a direct relationship between a child's learning disability and his or her disruptive or delinquent antisocial behaviors?

Jeff

Jeff is in trouble at school...again. His mother was called.... again. "There was another fight. He raised his scissors to another student and threatened him," states the school principal. "Jeff is an at-risk student. He's headed for delinquency, school drop-out, and other emotional problems."

Jeff has a learning disability (LD) that interferes with his ability to read. "His LD," states the principal, "is the cause of this behavior." Jeff's mother feels helpless hearing these words. She does not know how to stop Jeff's aggressive behavioral outbursts. She does not know, either, if she believes the principal.

Policy

Policy makers, too, are in a quandary. As school violence seems to escalate with events such as the Columbine shootings increased requests for a "zero tolerance" policy are voiced. This means that some parents, teachers, and lawmakers are requesting legislation to assure that children who engage in violent behaviors that threaten others are expelled from school.

Others ask, "If Jeff's learning disability contributes to the antisocial behavior should he be disciplined in a manner similar to non-disabled students?" Answers are complicated. School may make Jeff feel more anxious and tense due to his disability. Rigid discipline structures make these feelings worse possibly escalating his antisocial behaviors. Expulsion further limits his chances for success.

The Classroom

Teachers trained to help students with learning disabilities are essential to Jeff's positive transition to adulthood. Two facets of their roles are especially critical:

1. understanding causative relationships between a student's LD and his or her antisocial behaviors
2. developing "risk preventative strategies" to help a child with LD achieve resiliency that can prevent future antisocial behaviors

These facets will, or course, interact with a child's inborn traits (personality, cognitive ability, and degree of disability) family and community structures, supports, and beliefs.

Is there a direct causative relationship between a child's learning disability and his or her disruptive or delinquent antisocial behaviors? Children with learning disabilities may misread social cues or act impulsively. Their "social scanners" that help them read the intent of another's behaviors; that is, their information processing systems, do not work as efficiently as those of other children. A classmate borrows another's pencil without asking. A child without effective social scanners may see only the "pencil taking." S/he does not consider intent and responds aggressively.

Children with LD also often find themselves, by virtue of their disability, in the lower rungs of the academically defined social status among their peers. Even though a teacher assigns labels such as "bluebirds" or "robins" to reading groups, children know who are the best readers, best spellers, and prized students. Students with LD often feel the pain of not being among those students. They know they try so much harder. They see little benefit from effort and worry about disappointing parents, teachers and themselves.

Disadvantaged social position, combined with inability to accurately read social cues, and a sense that no matter how hard you try you cannot achieve in school as well as other classmates, or your siblings, creates a recipe for frequent disruptive antisocial behaviors. Acting out releases feelings of frustration. It gives a time-out from anxiety. Thus it can be self-reinforcing. It also distracts an audience of peers, parents and teachers, from the real problems of LD. Jeff can define himself as the "best trouble maker" not the poorest student!What makes this even more frustrating for Jeff, his parents and his teachers is the fact that Jeff may really not know what caused the fight. Redl (1968) identified a classroom counseling/crisis intervention approach, a life-space interview, that offers teachers "here and now" strategies to help a child understand the origin of problem behaviors so that behavior change can begin. Through a technique of "emotional first aid on the spot", the teacher helps the student drain off the frustration in order to be ready to understand the causes of the disruptive behavior by using a technique called reality rub-in. The teacher helps the student discover new ways to handle a precipitating event. This also involves helping the child understand self-boundaries. Children who feel disadvantaged among peers will often allow others to take advantage of them. In so doing they seek to gain peer favor. When this does not follow the urgency of frustration escalates.

Jeff, I saw that Bill picked up your special pencil. It made you very angry... so angry that you hit him and threatened to 'kill him' with your scissors. This worried the other kids. They were scared because that is not how they would have acted. Jeff, you play so well on the playground with your friends. I bet Bill did not know how really important that pencil was to you. Let's look to see if we can find how the fight began. OK? Then we can see if we can practice other ways to solve it.