As a parent of a child with mental illness, there are many things I wish I could do. My child’s attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) behaviors, or my own anxiety, often get in the way. Parenting a child with mental illness is intense. I often feel like a snowball of anxiety rolling down a snowy mountain of anxiety towards an icy river of even more anxiety, and if I type “anxiety” one more time, you’ll start to feel as anxious as I do. Because I am a parent of a child with mental illness, there are some things I just don’t do.