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Marriage and Mental lllness: 5 Steps to Revive Your Sex Life

Marriage and Mental lllness: 5 Steps to Revive Your Sex Life

Are you struggling with a loss of sexual intimacy in your marriage because of mental illness? Here are 5 ways to revive sexual intimacy. Take a look.

In marriages with mental illness, one of the biggest struggles can be the loss of a couple’s sex life. But, you can revive your sex life. Because of the side effects of medications, symptoms of mental illness, and conflicts within the marriage, many couples struggling with mental illness are also suffering from a lack of sexual connection. But, there is hope. Here are five ways to revive your sex life in spite of mental illness in your marriage. 

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Mental Illness and Marriage: Make a Wellness Contract

Mental Illness and Marriage: Make a Wellness Contract

Mental illness can derail a marriage if left untreated. When spouses commit to a wellness contract, marital success is more likely. Find out why. Read this.

When a marriage contains a mental illness, you should make a wellness contract to create boundaries.With a 90 percent divorce rate for couples in which one spouse has bipolar disorder, I realize how blessed Jack and I are to still be married. But our marriage has not survived for 16 years just because we love each other. Our marriage has survived because we made a straightforward contract after my bipolar 1 disorder diagnosis, and both of us have kept to it. He promised to stay with me for better or worse, and I promised to be med-compliant and to attend therapy in an effort to become as well as possible. Our wellness contract is helping our marriage and my mental illness.

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Concerned Parent? or Heartless Dictator Over Schizophrenia?

Concerned Parent? or Heartless Dictator Over Schizophrenia?

Two things happened last month that stirred me to revisit an often-examined question:

Am I too involved in my adult son’s life (Ben has schizophrenia.)? Have I “stolen his manhood and his rights” by insisting on treatment for his schizophrenia?

One reminder came in the form of a reader’s book review on Amazon.com for Ben Behind His Voices, calling it a “Testament to Abuse of Power and Parental Authority,” the only one-star review in a sea of 5-star praise and gratitude. Clearly, a man with an agenda, so I didn’t take it too personally, but this is not the first time I’ve been called an over-involved parent. On the other hand, I’ve also been criticized by others for not “stopping” Ben from dropping out of high school, for “allowing” my son a period of homelessness in Idaho and “letting him fail” when he gained and then lost five different jobs after he returned.

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Schizophrenia in the Family: Living in Hope

Schizophrenia in the Family: Living in Hope

If our story of schizophrenia hitting a family were made into a movie, here is where it might end: on the hopeful note of some dreams having come true, after challenges and crises too numerous to count. My adult son, Ben, is stable, taking his medication, able to participate in family functions, and actually working part-time as – of all things – a server in a restaurant where customers come in and ask to be seated in his section.

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The Pharmacy: Where Everybody Knows Your Name

The Pharmacy: Where Everybody Knows Your Name

Last Tuesday I called Tom, my husband of nearly 24 years and our family’s stay-at-home parent, and asked him to pick me up some bandages for a blister on my heel at the pharmacy. He groaned at me. “Sure,” was his reply in a half whine, half frustrated tone. “I haven’t been to the pharmacy in what, 12 hours. They’re probably wondering what’s happened to me.”

Tom continued his rant, telling me he feels like Norm from Cheers when he walks into the building, and he swears the pharmacist knows our phone number by heart.  I thought he was exaggerating until Friday when Tom asked me to stop and pick up a new medication for Tim on my way home from work.  When I got to the pharmacy counter and asked for a prescription for Tim Hickey, the pharmacist said, “Where’s Tom?” It took me a few seconds to pick my jaw up off the counter and politely answer that he was at home and no ill had befallen him.

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