"My purpose is to give information to both help the individual and other readers. I can not, and am not, assuming the role of your physician in any answer I make.
I also do not know your other medical problems and psychiatric diagnoses, which usually have a dramatic effect on medication (and other treatment) recommendations. You must make a medical and treatment plan with your physician and therapist(s).
I frequently recommend some books and tapes to help individuals. Zig Ziglar's tapes are particularly useful ('How to Stay Motivated' - 1-800-527-0306), and in my experience borderlines who listen every day to Ziglar do the best. I receive no monetary compensation for any of these recommendations."
