Andrew

Comments - Hello, my name is Andrew and I'm 16 years old and a homoseuxal. I came out in the beginning of May of last year. I encourage all of those who are still in the closet to do so, although it may be hard for some. There is really nothing to fear, except rejection from your family or friends. And although that sometimes happens any many cases, it's not always the story. My family and friends still love me for me and accept it. It's who I am. I felt so relieved after coming out and I'm able to be myself. The feeling is amazing. I've also made so many new friends from the experience. Just remember that you're still their child and they'll love you no matter what. And they might not even be that surprised, being that mine weren't since they have always known...it was a little obvious. So be gay and proud! Don't let what people say or think about you effect how you feel about yourself. There is nothing wrong with it, it is who you are. Love knows no gender.

Ali

Comments - it's not hard for me to be open about my bisexuality, because i am fortunate enough to have liberal parents, and amazing friends. But sometimes I have to wonder, are they really taking me seriously? I've noticed that many people assume when a girl says that she is bi, that they seem to think she is only referring to sex, or is not SERIOUSLY "gay". I find that incredibly wrong. Bisexuality is a form of homosexuality, and bisexual's are put through the same ridicule. But the point doesn't seem to get across! I am not a straight girl interested in sleeping with women... I'm not a lesbian interested in sleeping with men... I am a human being, just like any other, and I am bisexual, which to me, means that I don't see gender in a relationship, I see a heart. Bisexuality is not a porn term, it is a love of all human beings. It took me long enough to come to my conclusion, and all I want is for others to hear it.

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