Hello,
I am 19 years old and in need of some womanly advice. I have never had a high sex drive; I never even masturbated before I met my partner. I have been in this relationship for almost 4 years now, and I am engaged. My partners sex drive is very high, and it puts a strain on us when I cant seem to get in the mood. I've tried different foods and exercises, my partner has  treated me like a princess (giving me back rubs, trying sex toys and even an aphrodisiac bath salt!) but nothing has worked. I will go through spurts of being very sexually active to times where we go 3-4 weeks without any love making at all. My partner now thinks there is something wrong with them, and its frustrating me to no end! It just feels like we're going through the motions now. I cant swallow pills and I have no issues with dryness, and when we do make love it feels amazing...I'm just never in the mood for it. Please...is there anyone out there who can tell me whats wrong with me, and how to fix it? Thank u.