Thank you for the advise on the Alzheimers Lenore. A nursing facility is not an option for us at this point as my family feel she should die at home and not be "put away".  My issue I may not have gotten across  well enough is her DID now With the Alzheimers.  She has 6 distinct people inside of her and they all switch on a dime.  We have learned to deal with all of them but now things are really insane at her house with continuous drama.  Everything is Out Of Control now. I think they all have Alzheimers and none of them remember much any more and she is very difficult to handle now.  Here is a very benign for instance, before if one of them placed a brush on the living room table, and another one found that brush there, she would have said, now how on earth did this get here.  Now that same scenario after she finds it out of place is,Who would do this to me?  Who has been in my house?  Who has my keys?  Why would someone do this to me? Which escalates to wanting to put video cameras in her house and firing her home care workers, etc.  This stuff goes on daily.  We just do not know what to do about this.  Can Anyone out there help us?

Sorry for the name change but it is me.  Well I don't know how to explain this better.  With her having DiD she never knew anything any of the others did daily.  This part we are all used to.  But now with the Alzheimers it is at a new level. The game has changed.  Not only does she not kno what is going on from one minute to the other like always, but now, even the ones that would help to keep her organized so to speak, cannot.  If this makes sense to you.  She is now literally falling apart.  Even the ones that used to be capable of handling the finances cant. My sister is in charge of her care and has to do EVERYTHING for her and run both homes and both homes finances.  She used to have some who understood how to use a tv remote or turn a radio on, but not all of them could do this.  Now none of them can. She just sits in her house walking from room to room and collects stuff now.  Bugs, newspapers, magazine clippings, etc.  This still is not the problem.  I just don't think I could really explain what we are dealing with here. If it was just DID it would be managable.  If it was just Alzheimers, it would be managable.  But both together tips everything off the top.  All of them have Alzheimers not just one or a few.  Everything is crazy over there now. Ughh.