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Husband substitutes Sports for SEX. I am controling my Addiction

Husband substitutes Sports for SEX. I am controling my Addiction

Went from 5 x pr day to less than 5 x per year. Part of the reason I got married,was to be more respectable. This one issue is the most depressing part of my life.I need more meds, because the natural chemicals released upon climax make you feel more relaxed & happy.
We've talked this thru till Blue in our faces. In most other aspects he's a decent guy.
I am hoping someone can relate. Have a strong day. Tapestry

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Re: Husband substitutes Sports for SEX. I am controling my Addiction

sorry i cannot relate

I find pornography to be harmful to women on the large pic.

good luck my only experience with this addiction was a poor relationship with a man who was ssexually abused as child and youth and drinker bc of his illness and his mind.........it was very abusive and unfullfilling as humans            .......to me there is no good of the porn world.

I am an x criminalogy major
I am sure im jaded

help someone be the best they can be.

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Re: Husband substitutes Sports for SEX. I am controling my Addiction

Hi Tapestry. I'm a bit confused, so your husband is addicted to sex or something like that? Or on he contrary he's into the sports so much that he forgets about sex?

"We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." -Albert Einstein
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I relate to the release is peaceful and contentment. I masterbate when I can't controll it anymore. I try praying, but afterwards I feel better and worse because it felt great but goes against my beliefs. I am not married. I was 2xs. but both were abusive. The scary thing in my mind only I loved pretending to be abused-it gets me off. but all the abuse done to me -if I didn't enjoy it I would be tortured. So that is why I am this way. So I kept marrying abusive men (sexually) I didn't know they were until after we were married. B ut I understand About being repectable I married after 5 weeks to be respectable and 5 months the first time. I am a highly sexual person and I hate myself for it. Even if I look at a person I think sexually-I hate it =I hate what they have done to my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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