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Author: Ben1977
Sharing my story

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I'm grateful for the Internet and forums like this that allow people to share their stories. My story is probably similar to many others and on one hand it's not as severe as many other victims of sexual abuse but on the other hand it... Mar-26-13 10:41:26
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Author: liverpooljack1
Is this sexual abuse? Please help.

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I the original poster, Yes it obviously affected you and my best advice is to stay in therapy with a really good therapist and stay in there for a loooooong time. This isn't something you just get over in a few sessions. But it can get... Mar-11-13 09:55:39
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Author: Cherrycola8795

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I think it's just how our society operates in that you were made to feel like you we're at fault and you deserved it. I suspect the predator understands these dynamics and will continue his activity with protective friends. I hope you... Mar-09-13 21:45:31
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Author: kichigai
approach to therapy

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What I was thinking is that this paperwork was normally used for physical abuse victims where identifying their reasons might be useful. While in certain sexual abuse cases it would not be. For instance, in my case of physical abuse there were... Feb-25-13 09:52:40
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Author: vega83

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Wow, sounds like you both have been through a lot separately and together. From what you wrote, it sounds like you are not happy with the current situation and that things seem to getting worse as time goes on. It can be so hard to see a... Feb-10-13 16:20:53
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Author: VioletTrumpet
My girl friends step dad

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I don't know if it is too late for justice, but even if it isn't, she would have to be willing to report it. It may be more helpful for her if you suggest she see a counsellor. Even though she forgives him she may need some more help... Feb-10-13 13:14:16
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Author: quarry77
Abused as a child facing issues 40 years later

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Its not too late to start working on your issues, Its good that you recognized the trouble you are having and want to deal with them. I trust that you do not want to harm your grandchildren. I get snippy at my own children when I am having a rough... Jan-31-13 10:44:17
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Author: myponyjoey

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DEFINITELY talk to the school counselor about EVERYTHING that has gone on up to this point. This is SO wrong and unfair to you and can cause you psychological damage to last you the rest of your life if you don't do something now. If you... Jan-27-13 11:53:54
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Author: Al111

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You may want to seek counseling yourself about this matter and your own issues. At some point if you are still together you might invite him to join you in counseling to talk about your relationship if he is willing??? Otherwise being in... Jan-27-13 11:47:52
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Author: jjf830
Dealing many years later

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YEs i agree with that.I have talked to some people about that and have had it cause so many problems in my life. Then having othere issues surfacing. I may be past all the abuse but i dont know if i am or not because i still dont remeber alot of... Jan-09-13 07:23:40
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