men and sex
The Changing Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors of Women
contd.Working outside the home also changed women's
attitudes toward sex.
The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior by
Samuel Janus, Ph.D. and Cynthia Janus, M.D., copyright 1993, had some
eye-opening observations along this line. They wrote, "Our study has
documented many levels of sexual and social changes for both women and men in
the early 1990s, but we acknowledge that women's, not men's, sexual attitudes
and behavior have drastically changed within the past two decades.
"The enormous and ongoing change in
women's social and sex lives has separated women into entirely different
groups."
The Janus' write, "Work-life and a
workplace outside the home have given a new focus to many women's lifestyles.
The innovations transcend income earned or the nature of the work performed;
more significantly, they involve a personal sense of identity that sets these
women apart."
They continued, "In the women-C (career
women) and the women-H (homemaker women) groups, we found that we had two
distinctly different populations, regarding sex life and life-style in general.
"Women who work part-time outside the home
offered responses that were almost always between those of the women-C and
women-H groups."
Interesting!
But more interesting still was another
observation of The Janus Report, "One of the most striking
indications of our data involves the unprecedented levels of agreement between
men and women-C (those who work full-time outside of the home), as compared to
women-H, who do not work outside of the home at all. New levels of sexual
affinity and relatedness can also be observed, in sharp contrast to the
stereotypical sexual roles men and women have had assigned to them in the
past."
They concluded, "No longer does the man
alone decide the mode of sexual gratification; most often, the couple decides
together."
The sexual revolution was followed by the
reality of Herpes and AIDS and the need for safe sex. Many experts predicted a
slow down for sex in general and certainly a slow down for those out in the
less-safe singles' world.
Dr. and Dr. Janus found the experts were wrong.
They reported, "Approximately one-quarter
of the men (24%) and one-fifth of the women (20%) had much more sex activity.
When we combined sex activity."
They continued, "Perhaps not too
surprisingly, the homemakers increased their sexual activity more than the
career women did (43% versus 37%). We felt justified in assuming that more
homemakers than career women were in ongoing monogamous relationships."
Certainly a major sexual change has taken place
in American society. Assertiveness regarding the "when, where, and
why" of sex rather than passive acquiescence to sex is now a prerogative
exercised by many American women.
If the Janus' observations are accurate, much
of this sexual change was brought about by women taking jobs outside the home
and acquiring a heightened sense of personal identity.
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