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Good Mood:
The New Psychology
of Overcoming Depression
Chapter 1
cont.
There are several ways to manipulate your
mental apparatus so as to prevent the flow of negative self-comparisons about
which you feel helpless. The possibilities include: changing the numerator in
the Mood Ratio; changing the denominator; changing the dimensions upon which
you compare yourself; making no comparisons at all; reducing your sense of
helplessness about changing the situation; and using one or more of your most
cherished values as an engine to propel you out of your depression. Sometimes a
powerful way to break a logjam in your thinking is to get rid of some of your
"oughts" and "musts", and recognize that you do not need to
make the negative comparisons that have been causing your sadness.
This book, and cognitive therapy in general, do
not offer you an instantly-working formula that will transport you from misery
to bliss without the slightest effort or attention on your part. In order to
transform yourself from being sad to being joyful you'll have to give the
problem your attention and some hard work--whether you do the work alone or
with the help of a professional counselor.
The book does offer you a new analytic way of
understanding your depression, upon which you can build a rational, successful
procedure for extricating yourself from your unhappy jam. And the cure need not
wait for long years of psychotherapy, dredging up the details of your past life
and reliving it all. If you do choose to get outside help, ten or twenty
sessions with a therapist are par for the course.
This is not a guarantee that you will succeed
with this method. But it is a promise that a speedy cure -- faster than
nature's usual regenerative processes -- is possible for a large proportion of
depression sufferers.
*** Note:
Chapter 1 has summarized ideas found in Part
I of the book, Chapters 2-9. If you are impatient to get to the self-help
procedures in Part II Chapters 10 to 19), you can go
directly from here to there, without pausing now to read further about the
nature of depression and its elements. But if you have the patience to study a
bit more before moving on to the the self-help procedures, it may be worth your
while to read through Part I first. Or you can come
back to Part II later.
The discussion in this book is pitched at a
higher level of abstraction than are most self-help books. Partly this is
because cognitive therapy requires somewhat more mental discipline, and more
willingness to be introspective, than behavioral and other therapies.14 But the
higher level is also partly due to the fact that the book is aimed at
psychiatrists and psychologists, too, to present to them these new ideas and
methods that render more powerful some ideas and procedures they are already
familiar with. And these ideas can only be presented effectively to the
professions in the context of working therapy rather than in a more rarefied
and theoretical context.
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