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women and sex
Sex Truths about Men
That Women Rarely Understand:
Fantasy, Masturbation
Although the spread is narrowing, there are
some basic
sexual
differences with men and women that make it very hard for women to
understand men and sex and vice versa. Bearing in mind there is always that
scope for individual variety, here are some almost universal truths about men
that women most often fail to understand:
Most men have times when they just want sex for
the physical sake of sex itself without the entanglement of a relationship.
Sometimes a man just wants a woman's body. She can be asleep or drunk or even
watching television; he doesn't even care.
There was an expression during World War II
that explains this thought process: "Throw a flag over her face and do it
for Old Glory!"
Women often wonder, "Why would a man pay for
sex when it is easily obtained for free in our society?" The fact is
that the man will pay because he is only interested in "getting in and
getting out," quickly, and without any other involvement. This way of
thinking is practically incomprehensible to a woman.
But even more incomprehensible to a woman is
that a man can have sex with a woman he does not love at noon and then expect
sex from a woman he does love in the same afternoon. Women can not understand
this total separation and then total merger of sex and love.
There is another reason men can divorce sex and
love. Males reach the peak of their sexual energy in their teens.
This means males seek sex long before they are
mature enough for any enduring
intimacy or relationship to form. Thereafter, for many years, or at least
until a man's
sexual vigor wanes with age, this high sexual energy
threatens to disrupt any relationship that does form.
How many times has a man told you
he's in love with you ... on the first
date?
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