Frigidity - Sexual Unresponsiveness

Frigidity is an inappropriate word used to describe an absence of sexual desire and is often used as a put-down.

This can send confusing messages. Unresponsiveness is a more appropriate word to use to describe this temporary or ongoing lack of sexual desire.

Another definition of sexual unresponsiveness is an unwillingness or lack of enthusiasm to begin or enjoy sex. It can manifest as vaginismus - the inability of the vagina to be penetrated by the penis. The woman's inability to reach orgasm is another indication of unresponsiveness.

For men, a lack of sexual desire is difficult to conceal - the absence of an erection or the inability to ejaculate are obvious; but female unresponsiveness can be hidden - sexual desire and orgasm can be '"faked."

A woman who is sexually unresponsive may still be able to satisfy her partner, but often her unresponsiveness can be evident to him, even if she is fulfilling, or attempting to fulfill, his desires. In any case, the problem needs to be confronted and dealt with.

Why are women unresponsive to sex?

Last updated: 8/05

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