Perspectives on Acquaintance Rape
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III. Social Perspectives on Acquaintance Rape
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Feminists have traditionally devoted much attention to issues such as
pornography, sexual harassment, sexual coercion, and
acquaintance rape. The
sociological dynamics which influence the politics of sexual equality tend
to be complicated. There is no single position taken by feminists on any of
the aforementioned issues; there are differing and often conflicting
opinions. Views on pornography, for example, are divided between two
opposing camps. Libertarian feminists, on one hand, distinguish between
erotica (with themes of healthy consensual sexuality) and pornography
(material that combines the "graphic sexually explicit" with depictions
which are "actively subordinating, treating unequally, as less than human,
on the basis of sex." (MacKinnon, in Stan, 1995). Socalled "protectionist"
feminists tend not to make such a distinction and view virtually all
sexually-oriented material as exploitative and pornographic.
Views on acquaintance rape also appear quite capable of creating opposing
camps. Despite the violent nature of acquaintance rape, the belief that many
victims are actually willing, consenting participants is held by both men
and women alike. "Blaming the victim" seems to be an all too prevalent
reaction to acquaintance rape. Prominent authors have espoused this idea in
editorial pages, Sunday Magazine sections, and popular journal articles.
Some of these authors are women (a few identify themselves as feminists) who
appear to justify their ideas by drawing conclusions based on their own
personal experiences and anecdotal evidence, not wide-scale, systematic
research. They may announce that they too have probably been raped while on
a date to illustrate their own inevitable entanglement in the manipulation
and exploitation which are part of interpersonal relations. It has also been
implied that a natural state of aggression between men and women is normal,
and that any woman who would go back to a man's apartment after a date is
"an idiot." While there may be a certain degree of cautionary wisdom in the
latter part of this statement, such views have been criticized for being
overly simplistic and for simply submitting to the problem.
There has been a recent flurry of these literary exchanges on
acquaintance rape between women's rights advocates, who have been working to
raise public awareness, and a relatively small group of revisionists who
perceive that the feminist response to the problem has been alarmist. In
1993,
The Morning After: Sex, Fear, and Feminism on Campus by Katie Roiphe
was published. Roiphe alleged that acquaintance rape was largely a myth
created by feminists and challenged the results of the Koss study. Those who
had responded and mobilized to meet the problem of
acquaintance rape were
called "rape-crisis feminists." This book, including excerpted in many major
women's magazines, argued that the magnitude of the acquaintance rape
problem was actually very small. Myriad critics were quick to respond to Roiphe and the anecdotal evidence she gave to her claims.
IV. Research Findings
The research of Koss and her colleagues has served as the foundation of
many of the investigations on the prevalence, circumstances, and aftermath
of acquaintance rape within the past dozen or so years. The results of this
research have served to create an identity and awareness of the problem.
Equally as important has been the usefulness of this information in creating
prevention models. Koss acknowledges that there are some limitations to the
research. The most significant drawback is that her subjects were drawn
exclusively from college campuses; thus, they were not representative of the
population at large. The average age of the subjects was 21.4 years. By no
means does this negate the usefulness of the findings, especially since the
late teens and early twenties are the peak ages for the prevalence of
acquaintance rape. The demographic profile of the 3,187 female and 2,972
male students in the study was similar to the makeup of the overall
enrollment in higher education within the United States. Here are some of
the most important statistics:
Prevalence
- One in four women surveyed was victim of rape or attempted rape.
- An additional one in four women surveyed was touched sexually
against her will or was victim of sexual coercion.
- 84 percent of those raped
knew their attacker.
- 57 percent of those rapes happened while on dates.
- One in twelve male students surveyed had committed acts that met the
legal definitions of rape or attempted rape.
- 84 percent of those men who committed rape said that what they did
was definitely not rape.
- Sixteen percent of the male students who committed rape and ten
percent of those who attempted a rape took part in episodes involving
more than one attacker.
Responses of the Victim
- Only 27 percent of those women whose sexual assault met the legal
definition of rape thought of themselves as rape victims.
- 42 percent of the
rape victims did not tell anyone about their
assaults.
- Only five percent of the rape victims reported the crime to the
police.
- Only five percent of the rape victims sought help at rape-crisis
centers.
- Whether they had acknowledged their experience as a rape or not,
thirty percent of the women identified as rape victims contemplated
suicide after the incident.
- 82 percent of the victims said that the experience had permanently
changed them.
V. Myths About Acquaintance Rape
There are a set of beliefs and misunderstandings about acquaintance rape
that are held by a large portion of the population. These faulty beliefs
serve to shape the way acquaintance rape is dealt with on both personal and
societal levels. This set of assumptions often presents serious obstacles
for victims as they attempt to cope with their experience and recovery.
Myth |
Reality |
| A woman who gets raped usually deserves
it, especially if she has agreed to go to a man's house or park with
him. |
No one deserves to be raped. Being in a
man's house or car does not mean that a woman has agreed to have sex
with him. |
| If a woman agrees to allow a man to pay
for dinner, drinks, etc., then it means she owes him sex. |
Sex is not an implied payback for
dinner or other expense no matter how much money has been spent. |
| Acquaintance rape is committed by men
who are easy to identify as rapists. |
Women are often raped by "normal"
acquaintances who resemble "regular guys." |
| Women who don't fight back haven't been
raped. |
Rape occurs when one is forced to have
sex against their will, whether they have decided to fight back or
not. |
| Intimate kissing or certain kinds of
touching mean that intercourse is inevitable. |
Everyone's right to say "no" should be
honored, regardless of the activity which preceded it. |
| Once a man reaches a certain point of
arousal, sex is inevitable and they can't help forcing themselves
upon a woman. |
Men are capable of exercising restraint
in acting upon sexual urges. |
| Most women lie about acquaintance rape
because they have regrets after consensual sex. |
Acquaintance rape really happens - to
people you know, by people you know. |
| Women who say "No" really mean "Yes." |
This notion is based on rigid and
outdated sexual stereotypes. |
| Certain behaviors such as drinking or
dressing in a sexually appealing way make rape a woman's
responsibility. |
Drinking or dressing in a sexually
appealing way are not invitations for sex. |
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