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| Douglas - gseng1@hotmail.com - 48
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Relax and Enjoy! Make it a productive day! |
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| Rhino - Tsirhino@hotmail.com - | | Comments - I have always had an ongoing struggle with porn and masterbation. It was the same old cycle and continued on into my marriage. Then, I discovered how easy it was to find porn on the net, and everything went downhill from there.
What made it harder was that I was a church worker, and you just can't share your problem with just anyone. Well, in September of this year, I was confronted viewing porn on the church computer. At first, I denied it, but, when the pastor asked me, I had to come clean.
I told my wife about it right away because I wanted her to hear it from me. I worked there another month, but they asked me to resign. They gave me three months severance, and my wife and I temporarily separated. It was difficult because we have five children.
I found a job as an appointment setter, and I moved back home last December. I have not masterbated since then. It is sort of like getting sick on a favorite food: once you vomit it up, you no longer desire it. I have looked at internet porn a few times since December, but really out of habit rather than desire. That is why I am here at this site.
I am looking to get support from people who have been there, who hurt from porn or who just need a place to talk.
Right now, I am working as a salesrep, but it is not going so good financially. (I should be on the phone right now!) At any rate, perhaps the purpose for today was to find this site and find a place to go when I am bored and tempted to look at porn again.
I do want to recommend a good book for both men and women. I am rereading it now, and it hits the nail on the head about 99% of the time. The name of the book is "When Good Men Are Tempted" by Bill Perkins. I bought it because the first chapter intrigued me, "Why do naked women look so good?" I laughed right out loud in the book store.
Well, that is my story so far. I hope that it has helped someone.
Thanks for listening, and I will be eager to hear your story sometime.
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| Dan Laurier - MrDaniel48@AOL.COM - Almost 49 | | Comments - I am a recovering Sex Addict. Through a series of events beginning at the age of 3 1/2, which still aren't all clear to me,I was addicted to sex by the time I was 15..... both masturbating and homsexual pedophilia.....I have spent time in prison for this, now fourteen years ago, but struggle...having recently found picture galleries on the Web, not raw pron mind you, but innocent images that can be used to fire imaginagtion.
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| lin - ravenskyfirefly@aol.com - 48 | | Comments - Compulsive roots.... a desire to alleviate the loneliness and pain, a desire to feel better, a desire to know and be known. These are firmly rooted in my relationship and sex addictions, which I was not aware of until almost two years ago. I can now look back to my childhood and see where it all began, especially during adolescence. Orgasm was a physical release of stress, an attempt to "feel better". Coupled with fantasy, it became a powerful factor in my life. Married at 18 and frustrated by sex that seemed like a cruel joke God played on woman.. I developed a pattern of "being good, being bad". I can see the pattern clearly now, and have no control over it. I am powerless over this addiction, because the needs underlying it have not been met. I look to God as my only source of help, through 12-step recovery. |
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| Jim - vimnjicki@email.com - 43 | | Comments - I am touched by a couple of the posts i see on the wall tonight. The woman for whom sex is a cruel joke, and the man who spent time in prison. I somehow relate to you both, having been in "recovery" for about ten years. What i mean by recovery is that i have been aware that the compulsion i had experienced most of my life was the result of an addiction to the need to be connected, emotionally, to other people, often on an inappropriate level to too many people. I am a recovering sex/love/romance addict. i would like to encourage you all who read this that there is light somewhere, around the next corner, after the next succesfully fought off trigger, during the next S.A. meeting, or maybe even on the way to work in the morning. The compulsion does fade. The desperation does decrease. The desire can be satisfied without losing your family and/or sanity. There are those of us who hear and feel your tears and pain. The loneliness can be shared with us. i need to share my recovery and my weakness, my experience and my losses, in order to continue to recover. Please let me be here, and allow me to just talk, to just connect with the person inside of myself, so that i dont reach outside, to create chaos, so that instead of feeling numbness, i feel tragedy. Allow me to help myself by being here and by interacting with me. thank you |
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| lin - ravenskyfirefly@aol.com - 48 | | Comments - Hi Jim, I am glad you are here and are willing to share your experience, strength, and hope. HP(God) has shown me the importance and joy of sex in the past 2 years....as a result of my growing compulsions...God can always make good come from what is meant for destruction. I am on Him to show me the balance.
I look forward to getting to know you here. We need all the support and fellowship we can get, don't we!!!!
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| Troy Strickland - alissa_6969_us@yahoo.com - 24 | | Comments - never let them see you bleed
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| Troy Strickland - alissa_6969_us@yahoo.com - 24 | | Comments - ODE TO MY GODDESS
OH how I wish that I could worship my goddess forever. To go beyond death and live to worship till the end of infinity. I would would charis the earth my goddess walks upon. I would bask in the preasence of her smile and laughter.
To feel her smooth skin makes my soul tingle with life.
To hold her fragile but powerful body pours my soul our through my eyes
To hear her soft peacefull voice brings surenity to my thoughts.
To touch her beautiful flowing hair is to touch the softest of heaven sent.
To kiss her red full lips is to dive into a pool of flowers
To worship her is to go to heaven and come back
I love to run my hand over her skin and feel the smooth silk feeling of her skin, feeling her bossum so soft and beautiful. I can only stare in aw at the wonderful feelings and emotions that my goddess grants me. She completes me, takes the lost soul within me and shows it the way.
I bow before her and offer her my body for her own pleasures. She offers me a drink from her fountain of youth. I accept willingly, drinking the last drop of love that she has to give me. It pleases my goddess to see me happy at the fuits of her commands. She lays me down and closes my eyes so that I may recieve her passion and feel it running through my soul. I close my eyes and see pure bliss as it flows from the heavens and into my soul, purifying it. My goddess wants my soul to become one with hers, but i'm afraid, afraid of the power she would give me. Would it be too much if she poured her essence into my empty bowl. Would it destroy the tender heart that I have protected for so many generations of old. Or would it fill me and consume the heart I have and strengthen it. I cannot go against the word of my goddess. I give in to her powers. She consumes my senses untill we are one. alone in the darkness but yet not afraid, we are at peace, as if we have created our own world for us to exist together. A world were we are gods and devils. A world were we are it's creator. Aworld were no harm can be done, only happiness and love fly throught the sky free of the burdens that ground them.
She has shown me what it is like to be a god.
-Troy Strickland
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| Eric E - EricEE@aol.com - 49 | | Comments - I have had some experience with those little urges to act out that plague me as an addict. My twelve step fellowship suggests a course of action. First I admit that I am powerless and that this behavior will and does make my life unmanageable. Second I have to believe that there is a power greater than myself that can restore me to sanity. For those of us on this list I hope we can agree that is our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ. We learn this as a fact in Sunday school. We recite it in Church on Sunday and when we meet with each other during the week. Fortunately that is not enough for some of us. We must come to believe it with our hearts and souls. We must grow in faith in it and through it. We are blessed with the opportunity to live with it as we live by the air we breath in our human shells. It is our strength or hope and ultimately our salvation. Third, I
must make a decision to turn my will and life over to the care of God as I understand Him. I doubt that I will ever fully understand God. I suspect that has something to do with my being a very finite human being and He being by His very nature infinite, a concept I can only stand in awe of.
To expand a bit on these seemingly simple three steps, I must first recognize what is happening. I have found that what works best for me to not just be aware that it is happening but to seek the cause as soon and as thoroughly as possible. I am almost invariably supposed to be doing something else when an urge hits me. Why is indulging in the urge more attractive to me then what I am supposed to be involved in or what I am putting off doing? Six
major suspects I have found are H.A.L.T. B.S.; Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, Bored or Sick. All six of these feelings are major triggers for my own acting out behaviors. I really didn't used to think about this very much when I was acting out and when I first got involved in program (I was too busy struggling to stop).
Part of my beliefs about God say that He isn't going to allow me to be exposed to more than I can handle with His help. Of course this may be way much more than I can handle left to my own poor resources. He is graciously willing to allow me to petition him to intercede on my behalf as much as I want to. Even when I ask Him (beg him sometimes) to do something he has done for me many many times before He is still willing to listen and act. It seems
like he is willing for me to be exposed to the same challenges and opportunities again and again until I learn the lesson. I think this is one of God's gifts to me now. I didn't used to feel like much of a gift I might mention, and it took me a fair amount of time to begin to appreciate it and become grateful for it.
Only a truly loving parent is willing to allow His child to take risks or is patient enough to let them try again and again when He knows they are in danger. Or to be there for the child when they come running back with the same injuries repeatedly. How great the love to allow the child the experience even when the result is painful so that the child will grow? The real gift and the ultimate outcome is wisdom, which is a pretty wonderful gift, "a
pearl without price." Wisdom comes from experience and as some wit once said, "Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted." So where does this urge come from? I have found for me that they rarely just appear out of nowhere, although it used to look that way when I first started doing this. I had to get out my Sherlock Holmes outfit and a magnifying glass and do a little detective work.
I was blinded by my addictive habits and behaviors. God has opened my eyes to my own defects of character. Why would God allow all sorts of horrible things to happen to me? He never did. He loves me too much for that. He wants me to know him and rely on him. He wants me to trust in Him and would never violate that trust.
When I stumble and fall it is not because God wants me to hurt myself. It is because He wants me to learn how to walk. He wants me to grow and learn that relying on him is not a crutch but all my strength, hope, and salvation. When I turn away from the Lord to indulge in my own urges for carnal lust or anything else, it isn't because God doesn't love me. God loves me so much he gave his only son to die for me. His son told us to "Love the Lord your
God with all your heart and all your soul." When I indulge my physical urges I cannot at the same time love the Lord God with all my heart and all my soul. I only have the capacity to do one thing at a time well. I'm awfully good at acting out, my goal is to be that good at my personal relationship with God. By allowing me to see how I create so many of my own crises in life, God has helped me stop stumbling as often. I have gotten to watch myself
move from crawling, through staggering, to stumbling and weaving, to wandering, to walking upright, and keeping to an ever narrowing path in a straight line. It appears to me to be a learning process of growth and increasing strength. Any exercise hurts most at first as new muscles are stretched and contracted to meet new demands. Is it any wonder that the early stages of recovery from addiction are so painful?
The intense heat and the hammering pain remind me of the process for making steel and I can feel my faith deepening and strengthening with each blow of life's hammer. The challenges and pain I faced when I first sought help with my addiction are petty and minor compared with the opportunities I have enjoyed in the last couple of years. Had I been faced with them years ago I think I would have run away shrieking into hysteria and madness. They are
still challenging and I have many doubts about myself but my resources now are infinite and make any challenge only another opportunity to grow in faith and my loving relationship with my savior Jesus Christ. I am learning and growing slowly, progress not perfection.
Stay sober just for today
Eric E
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| Amy - - 35 | | Comments - This message is to ravenskyfirefly. I want to tell you how relived you made me feel because I share the same experience as you. I share the experience of being bad, being good and "acting out" with other men (I'm married...) It isn't just porn for me and it started in childhood. My father was unavailable to me and an alcoholic and I am seeing that there are conncections there. I found this website and I am so releived that there are others like me.... I want to be well, and I will visit this site every day if I have to to find hope... Thank you ravensky, thank you for sharing. |
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| raven - ravenskyfirefly@aol.com - 48 | | Comments - Hi Amy, its been a long time since I was here, so I just now read your message on 11-23-00. I am glad my sharing was helpful to you. :) I hope you are doing well. Email me if you'd like to share more.
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| Jeff s. - jcspitb@yahoo.com - 38 | | Comments - Being BI-POLAR i'm naturaly hyper sexual the doctors have told me to deal with it.I was married for 16yrs until she couldn't handle it anymore and left.then i had a 20yr old girlfriend who i let cus and phisicly abuse me because i was in love now she's gone because she thought my check had stoped she thought wrong so now i'm struggling to refind my self and finding it hard to reajust to life |
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| robbi01 - robbi01@hotmail.com - 53 | | Comments - http://geocities.com/robbi01/mystic-love.html |
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| Jeff - safebond@aol.com - 43 | | Comments - I need to speak for many of us who are actively trying to deny the natural. If as a society we do NOT stop trying to deny are genetic coding, stop trying to make men & women equal, stop trying to make us non-sexual...we will continue to see the increasing Divorce rate, failure of the family unit, increasing depression, and confusion of our youth.
I am hyper-sexual (If you call 2-3 times a week that). I think about sex all the time and I LOVE looking at women. Yes, I like many of you replace Love & emotion with SEX (caused by childhood trauma).
But, it is time to be "smarter" than we think we are, stop listening to the Shrinks, the Preachers, Oprah, and others...and beleive that Women were meant to want us to look and Men were meant to look. (the advertisers certainly know this).
Am I the only one who has noticed that "good looking men" are hairless and have femenate features? & that pretty/qute women are boyish? Boy, are we screwed up as a modern society.
The core problem is MARRIGE. I AM NOT against marrige, or family, or life time relationships. Just that we need to re-evaluate our MODEL (church responsible for much of this) and look for alternative MODEL's. I would suggest that multiple person marriges, with EITHER
2 men/1 women or 2 women/1 man
"may" be a possible solution, there would be 3 possible incomes, one could be the homemaker, and there would still be 2 incomes. One could be upset, or not "in the mood", while the other would be. Sadly we must be realistic about HEALTH, the likelyhood of one dying from Cancer/Heart/Misc is very great and with 3, 2 would still remain.
I am aware this would not work for everyone, and goes against the common MOLD, but if we DO NOT do SOMETHING soon than my children or their children may never be totally happy.
Just my 2 cents, NO, that was not an ad for poligamy (sorry about spelling). I am alos into bondage (light) and my wife really thinks its sick, even though she has honestly tried it for me. But her heart will never be in it. When she is not into it, it ruins the experience for me. A possible solution (other than divorce), would be a 3rd partner. I know, it is the EASY answer.
I just want to be happy, to be sexually active and have a small fantasy ever now and then and not be looked at as a freak. Hopefully before I get to old to care or to old to physically join in.
I think that another possibility is what we now refer to as "cheating".
Let spouses find another married partner to fullfill a void they have, then let both go back to there families happier and able to function better.
I know this sickens some of you, but I AM LOOKING FOR ANSWERS, and not the 12-step, religious, bottled hype...that by the statistics on teen sex and divorce is not working by a LONG shot.
If you disagree with me thats fine, but look around...do you really thing that our current system is working fine?
time to admit that Men will look at women's bodies, that they will sexually desire them (even if they can not have them), and that IT IS OK for them to look and for women to want to be desired.
Hope I did not touch to many raw nerve and this serves to make some of you think or open a discussion.
Good Health |
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| Rodney - the_cybersurfer@hotmail.com - 62 | | Comments - For a while now I have suffered silently from the embarasment of impotence. I talked to my local doctor and said try Viagra but I couldn't bring myself to walk into the local drug store an ask for it. My doctor suggested buying it online and after heaps of searching a found a site that would deliver it for me at low cost and discrete. Well it worked and it saved me any furthur embarassment.
For those interested the site I use is www.rx2world.com.
Rodney
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| panic - panic28 - 24 | | Comments - my husband loves porn. we have been together for couple of years and i just discoverd it... he has membership to some teensite and stuff(or youg girls!!). i'm so frustrated! i'm depressed self-injerer and everytime i think about it i get urge to cut my self. can anybody tell me the reason why you look at porn so much? i'm going crazy and afraid to have baby with him. what if i have a girl?? will he look at her sexually?? i really need some opinion. i do not wish to offend anyone. i just want to know something.please help me. please. |
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| paul - sensual.male@bushinternet.com - 50 | | Comments - sex is good |
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| Emma - famesthenameofthegame@yahoo.com - 14 | | Comments - WHO HAS THE RIGHT TO SAY WHAT YOU BELIVE IN! |
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| Emma - famesthenameofthegame@yahoo.com - 14 | | Comments - WHO HAS THE RIGHT TO SAY WHAT YOU BELIVE IN! |
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| Chris - cleehancock@hotmail.com - 25 | | Comments - Help.....anyone!!!
I have a problem (maybe even many smaller problems that are causing this one.) I'm not sure how to deal with it, if I should, if it is perfectly normal, etc. I am 25 years old, I was brought up in the Mormon religion, I was also raised by two wonderful people who have molded me and taught me how to become a gentleman with chivalric characteristics. I am a humble man with humble means. I have been told that I am physically attractive though I don't see how that is possible, I don't wear name brand clothes, I don't have a fancy hair cut and I don't have a lot of money; I have red hair, I am 290+lbs, I am 6'1", I drive a Ford Tempo and I work for the State. I have also been told that I have a great sense of humor which I know to be true and I'm glad that I'm able to share it with many people.
Now that you know a little about me, here is my problem. I have had only two serious relationships in my life, both with younger women by about 5 to 6 years. Neither relationship lead to physical intimacy beyond a kiss on the forehead or on the hand. They were very satisfying relationships to me and I was very happy while in them. I felt that my feelings for these two different women (a few years in between each of the two and lots of singular dates) were very strong, I would lay my life down for theirs, raise their children, stay by them night and day through good and bad, sickness and health. But I would not have sex with them! I would show them many things, buy them whatever they needed, protect them and take care of them. But I would not have sex with them! This was a problem for them and for me. I have a problem with physical intimacy that I only understand to a degree and enough for me to figure out how to remedy it. When I was a child, I made the decision for myself that I would never do drugs, never drink alchohol and never have pre-marital sex or conduct myself in a sexual manner. That was about 15 years ago. Today, I smoke and occasionally I will have a drink. I cared about these two women deeply but I could not bring myself to show them physically because I felt that if I did and it did not work out between us, then I would have had sex with someone other than my wife or who I would hope to marry. To me it is still important to me to be sexually active with only one person in my life, my eternal companion. But, as strongly as I feel about that, it also causes an internal conflict that is tearing me apart. I now feel that if I don't bring myself to be physically intimate with the next woman or the most recent of the two, that I will never get married or have the privilege of being loved by a woman to the same degree that I am ready to offer. I feel that I will never have the honor or privilege of raising a family that I and my eternal companion might create. I need to know how to handle this situation - this inner conflict if you will. I need insight to help me make the right decision or some sort of confirmation that I already have and how better to handle myself in the future. The thing is, I care very deeply still for the last woman I was in a relationship with (Heidi) and I think about her constantly. When we decided to slow it down and go back to being friends (as that we were good friends for 1 1/2 years before seeing each other exclusively) it was because she said that "you are too good for me, you deserve someone better." And I had heard this before with the previous relationship (Dedra.) Almost exactly the same word for word. I don't understand how they could say that, I absolutely loved everything about her (Heidi) even the little things she did that were bothersome to others I loved her and nothing she did could or has changed that. I can't get over that there is something about her that I don't want to give up this time, like I need to be persistant but not demanding. We still go out often enough and talk on the phone at least twice a week and write each other once or twice a month (long letters 8 to 10 pages at least.) I am of the frame of mind that if I could be/could have been more physically intimate with her (Heidi) that it would work out better for us (as that she has had sex with a few different partners and that she is a sexual being.)
I don't know who to talk too, I've tried looking to my parents and to my religious leaders but I've found no help or insight. I desperately need someone to give serious attention to my despair...it has become quite a problem.
Thank you ahead of time for your assistance and insight. I hope that you will have some to offer or maybe be able to direct me to someone who can offer further help.
Sincere kindness,
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| Christopher - cleehancock@hotmail.com - 25 | | Comments - PANIC - THIS IS FOR YOU:
Slow down a little, I think that there is a strong chance that maybe you are over analyzing your husbands habit. I myself do not like to look at porn. It's never been my thing. However, it is quite common for men of all ages to look at porn. I don't know how old your husband is but, I believe that it is common for older men and men as they get older to fantasize about themselves being "Studdly" enough to be able to interact with younger women. Now I don't know how young these women are that he is looking at, but unless he is visiting an illegal website, all the young women he is viewing must be at least 18 years old. That's the law regarding pornographic materials. As far as a child of his own blood is concerned, I would not believe that your husband is as deranged or seriously ill to look upon one of his own children in a lustful or sexually deviant manner. Take a look at your relationship with him, how long you've known him...besides himself, you are probably the only person that would know him well enough to know what he is capable of. Have you discussed your concerns with him or told him how it affects you (the woman he loves) when he looks at this smut? If you haven't maybe you should. If you need someone to talk to more on this (I'm not an expert or anything, but I am a good man with honorable and pure intentions) and I am a good listener. I am always willing to share insight. You can reach me at my email address cleehancock@hotmail.com anytime you have the desire to talk with someone. Sometimes that's all a person really needs is a friendly neutral ear with free insight. |
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| sophya - goingedu@yahoo.com.mx - 41 | | Comments - I wan to change my sex, if anyone can tell me how or where do I get support or advice.
Yours
Sophya |
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| Sarah - ookpik@altern.org - | | Comments - i have never met my hymen
I don't remember when I first heard about hymens, but I associate it with jr. high. Maybe someone's last name sounded like hymen and everyone was excited.
As is fairly well published, the hymen is a thin membrane of skin (hymen is Latin for membrane ) that partially covers the opening of the vagina. Usually it is depicted as being attached along the back edge and up the sides rather than the front, and not stretching across as a band in the middle. It is located right at the opening, just inside the inner labia.
It can be one piece or somewhat webbed, and it can be smoother or flappier. All of this is being related by me as second-hand knowledge. I have never noticed any hymens on anybody.
The hymen is also referred to fairly commonly as a cherry (never by me personally), and has been associated with virgin females because its presence is thought to guarantee that the vagina in question has never been penetrated by a penis.
I myself don't much correlate the two, partly because, as is fairly common knowledge, a number of things besides sex can break the hymen (excercise, masturbation, tampons. Horseriding and gymnastics are frequently implicated). If such activities don't break the hymen they often give it practise stretching so that it won't break when stretched to accomodate a phallus and will remain intact after sex. Further, the hymen actually recedes back into the body and disappears on its own starting in adolescence (according to a Kinsey Institute report; I have never read this anywhere else).
So, essentially, the hymen is a small bit of skin that may hurt a bit if it is torn somehow, but will go away by itself even if it isn't broken.
As for my own hymen, I've never actually noticed it, despite having being familiar with my unit for quite some time now. I think that is why this page is the 100th one to get made-- I never think about my hymen or the memory of it (I assume it is a trace entity by now, whatever happened to it). In thinking about my vagina i was much more preoccupied with the mole ;)
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| Todd Page - TobeyTod@cs.com - 30 | | Comments - Looking for correct answers. I never have spontaniuos erection. When I am involved with my S.O. I have a time getting it up, and he becomes so discouraged. I feel bad. On the other hand once I achieve full erection I can go, and go. Ejaculation can take up to an hour, or more. And by this time my partner has lost intrest. It is becoming a problem in our relationship..For he's fast on the draw!
Please, if anyone has a place for me to start, or any advice, or if you have been there.....I would appriciate your feed back |
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| Fred - thexhealer@cs.com - 29 | | Comments - I can't stop masterbating.. I do it so often my asshole is sore, even when I can't get it all the way up I strain and make my self come. This is torture and I don't know what to do to keep from this obsession. HELP |
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| Linda - Heart@loganrec.com - 50 | | Comments - oh, to heal Would it not be great To be able to give yourself freely without the fear of losing control and loss of breath To be able to be a sexual human being without fear |
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| Emmie - donaireparkrocks@yahoo.com - 15 | | Comments - Shouldn't matter who you choose to love. |
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| Dean - yes123no@yahoo.com - 50 | | Comments - sex addict needs to stop - please contact me to talk to me |
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| Fran - FLittle@ResourceConsultants.com - | | Comments - I have a sexual disorder. |
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| robert - rlay060551@msn.com - 51the | | Comments - Help Help My 19 year old son was raped when he was 17 and a half at a high school party by three young men who used a date rape drug. He has quit school and gotten into drugs mainly crank at first because he didn't want to sleep and now alcohol to get to sleep. He now has delusions that his mother and I have raped him and is getting a fixation on how to make the drug to knock people out so they won't be able to to it to hiom again. He is seeing a psycholgist who want to to rem therapy but he must be clean first. Is anyone out there who has felt like this after a rape. |
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| robert - rlay060551@msn.com - 51the | | Comments - Help Help My 19 year old son was raped when he was 17 and a half at a high school party by three young men who used a date rape drug. He has quit school and gotten into drugs mainly crank at first because he didn't want to sleep and now alcohol to get to sleep. He now has delusions that his mother and I have raped him and is getting a fixation on how to make the drug to knock people out so they won't be able to to it to hiom again. He is seeing a psycholgist who want to to rem therapy but he must be clean first. Is anyone out there who has felt like this after a rape. |
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| Dave - - | | Comments - Im 21 years old and a virgin . Im not an unatractive man and theres nothing wrong with me physically ....I've had several sexual opprtunities but i always seem to sabotage myself. I've never been close to a woman or anyone else for that matter, but only god know my lonelyness...I want to know whats wrong with me....i ruin everything good in my life..I want to live...I want to grow...I want to be free |
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| Joe - papageorgeo101@cogeco.ca - 17 | | Comments - Please, can someone help me?
I'm 17 and I can get an erection, but it isn't completely hard! Not even my girlfriend can get it completely hard...I've tried some different things like kegels and pc flexes but nothing is helping. Can someone please help me out, or at least tell me what is wrong??
E-mail me if you can. Thanks. =) |
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| Mike - mt61668@yahoo.com - 34 | | Comments - Help....
Is there anybody else out there who has this problem? I cannot feel sexual pleasure. It puts a tremendous toll on my body and mind. The jealousy of my partners experience is what hurts the most, considering that I've never felt real intimacy with someone else, I'm like closed off from it. Anybody else out there feel closed off from sensuality? My sexual parts just are shut off. |
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| Mike - mt61668@yahoo.com - 34 | | Comments - Help....
Is there anybody else out there who has this problem? I cannot feel sexual pleasure. It puts a tremendous toll on my body and mind. The jealousy of my partners experience is what hurts the most, considering that I've never felt real intimacy with someone else, I'm like closed off from it. Anybody else out there feel closed off from sensuality? My sexual parts just are shut off. |
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| Mike - mt61668@yahoo.com - 34 | | Comments - Help....
Is there anybody else out there who has this problem? I cannot feel sexual pleasure. It puts a tremendous toll on my body and mind. The jealousy of my partners experience is what hurts the most, considering that I've never felt real intimacy with someone else, I'm like closed off from it. Anybody else out there feel closed off from sensuality? My sexual parts just are shut off. |
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| bob - druidnudistdude@yahoo.com - 56 | | Comments - i was raised in a disfunctional family of an alcoholic and philandering father and obsessively "neat and clean" german catholic mother. i wet my bed from 6 or 7 until 15 or so. when i did, i had to wake my mom and she changed the sheets while i ran the bath water. she would give me a thorough bath. when i was around 11, i felt something "down there" and was embarrassed. presently, i have depression, social phobia, panic attacks, ocd (compulsive masturbation), agoraphobia...are these adult problems connected with childhood problems? be kind and write back please,bob (: |
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| raven - ravenskyfirefly@aol.com - 50 | | Comments - ...is this board still active?... i've been away for a very long time and today, accidentally came across this forum again. i've been sober for over 15 months now, and am eternally grateful to God. |
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| Ellie - shadownova2000@aol.com - 49 | | Comments - I just do not want to have sex. I need companionship. I need closeness. I do not want the intimacy of a sexual relationship. Am I the only one like this? |
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| PJ - oikos5@hotmail.com - | | Comments - Not comparing with any other, please let what we have transend. |
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| PJ - oikos5@hotmail.com - 45 | | Comments - Not comparing with any other, please let what we have transend. |
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| Brynna - - | | Comments - I really admire all the men here who are fighting for themselves and a life of dignity. I had a problem with many partners and promiscuity for many years. I went through a lot of therapy (some good, some very bad) and I no longer have the problem myself, but I have a boyfriend who uses internet porn. I told him how I feel and that I feel very committed to him alone. He has agreed to stop and I am so grateful that he is trying and all you other men are trying as well. |
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| Brynna - - | | Comments - In other words, I know there is hope!!!
And don't listen to those who say "Just looking is natural." And maybe the answer is more than one spouse. !! Yea right. Some animals kill their own offspring, so "It's perfectly biologically natural" just doesn't make a sound argument. |
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| Amanda - MAGIEREK3@msn.com - 16 | | Comments - I AM WORTHY OF LOVE I WILL LET MY LIGHT SHINE. |
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| Walt - waltskywalker@yahoo.com - 38 | | Comments - I'm really frustrated with myself. I've been involved with pornography since I was about 13 years old ... Now I'm 38 and as much a slave to lust as I could have imagined.
Now, after 25 years of bondage (10 of which I have been a Christian and, therefore, constantly convicted and conflicted), I am starting to see deterioration of my sex life with my wife. My relationship with God is damaged and now my relationship with my wife is starting to suffer.
I wonder if my thought life can be restored and renewed. I have finally reached the bottom so I am looking up to God to pull me out. I pray he can restore what I freely gave away to the enemy.
Not sure if this is appropriate for the wall, but it was helpful to put my thoughts into words. |
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| Melissa - pittaparty@hotmail.com - 36 | | Comments - I feel so stupid. I always said I would never get involved with an abusive man, and I thought that it would be obvious, like getting hit. I didn't realize how insidious sexual addiction could be (actually he was addicted to everything he enjoyed, video games, pot, food, etc.). When he met me, he pressured me to have sex right away and wouldn't take no for an answer. Then he justified having this selfish intercourse-only (and only when he felt like it) sex life with me by blaming it on my attitude! He kept saying that my female way of talking about relationship issues was a turn-off (talk about a catch-22). I just got so sick of it finally the other morning, when he awakened again before me and just proceeded to try to stick it in, no arousal, no lubrication, no asking my permission... He has given me bladder infections with this insensitive crap, and still doesn't care. The funny thing is, when we met, I told him that I didn't mind if he looked at other women or occasionally looked at porn or even saw the occasional escort or stripper. But Mr. Wonderful took the ball and ran with it, making me endure his endless detailed descriptions of all the other women he saw and how he'd like to have sex with them. As we have grown more and more distant, his habit prior to meeting me of looking at internet porn and masturbating on average four to five times a day (EVERY day) has returned. He numbs himself out with everything he can find: exercise, masturbation, pot, video games, and then yells at me if I even mention any "relationship issues", having gotten downright verbally abusive about it just recently. He had me convinced that I was the biggest problem in this relationship, now I see that that wasn't the case. He equated my "annoying" him with relationship issues with his basically attempting to rape me on a regular basis. The difference is, I am seeing a therapist and want to acknowledge my issues and grow, while he just wants to move on to the next woman that he can treat like an inflatable doll. These learning experiences are getting old, and I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever get it "right" and choose the right guy. Thanks for listening. |
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| raven - * - * | | Comments - hello again...
this message wall seems to sleep most of the time... can it be improved?
how can it be made more accessible?
i'm just here to make conscious contact with my HP by reaching out to others. If you need help with compulsive sexual behavior, check out Sexual Compulsives Anonymous at sca-recovery.org |
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| - essencew20@yahho.com - 20 | | Comments - If you received any other letter from essencew20@yahoo.com Please disreguard them.This is the real one. I haven't had sex with a man in about 4 years now. Plus I realized that I never really liked intercourse(only oral sex),faked orgams,& really wish not to have intercourse but frusration comes over me sometimes because God made Adam for Eve.I was never raped nor morlested by a man.I cant say all men are dogs because I met a nice gentleman about seven months ago that wanted to be my boyfriend/husband but I turned him down because I didnt feel a connection with him. For a while I did blame my ex parnters for making sex less enjoyable then I said maybe GOD wants me to get married first then have sex. My theory was find my soul mate! I talked with pastors,friends,two family members, watched Berman&Berman for women only show on the discovery channel. I also visit my doctor a couple of times but she said everything was normal but how come I don't feel normal? I talked with all of these people but still no clarity!I know that I'm young & have plenty of time(I guess)for whatever but Can anyone help me because somedays I feel soo crazy & out of place! Does sex have to deal with God or what?? |
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| lisa - ewok175@hotmail.com - 33 | | Comments - To panic 28 - my soon to be ex liked looking at young girls and recently "fell in love" with my 13 year old sister. We have a 2 year old daughter, and he also abused her. Be careful, trust your instincts |
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| Debbie - debrablondangel@aol.com - 43 | | Comments - Learning to love yourself is harder than it sounds. |
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| Bob - gospodinhubef@yahoo.com - 57 | | Comments - I would like to know why it is that I have the problems of masturbation whenever I feel anxious, depressed, high blood pressure, etc. When I was growing up and wet my bed (until I was sixteen) my German Catholic mother would have me wake her and take a bath while she changed the sheets. She then "cleaned" me meaning she made sure my penis was very clean. Did this have an affect on me as of today? I have to masturbate, I have to clean my body and shave my body hair and pubic area so that I am "clean." Would somebody email me and chat? Take care |
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| dominic - intodeep248@aol.com - 14 | | Comments - im starting to have feelings towards the same sex. at first i thought it was just a werid spell but now im finding it more and more common. i still have fellings for girls but i cant deny my feelings for guys. if anyone at all can help please contact me thank you. |
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| test test - paul@web-hed.com - 28 | | Comments - test |
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| Jen - - 21 | | Comments - I've read about it, heard about it, seen shows about it, but I still can't overcome my total lack of sexual desire. I love my boyfriend, and he is so beautiful, but sex, well, hurts! Yes, I can use lube, and all that, but it hurts if it's longer than 20 min. I've been examined, and I'm all clear. I've switched from Effexor to Lexapro to decrease sexual side effects. Am I doomed forever? Please help by responding to this wall! |
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| Yvette Rhodes - yvettemercedes@aol.com - 36 | | Comments - how do women have anal sex without having any feces expelled? |
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| Jodi - sa32555@aol.com - 45 | | Comments - I'm learning to embrace my sexuality in a healthy way. |
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| jodi11 - sa32555@aol.com - 45 | | Comments - To the one who is panicked... I have been struggling with the fear, anxiety, and panic over pornography for a few years, ever since I first discovered that my partner liked to look at it. Fortunately, I have a partner who is supportive, compassionate, communicative, and incredibly respectful of the feelings of others. Because I have seen, over the course of several years, what a good-hearted and loving person he is, I have been able to see this porn issue in a very different light. Through it, I have also come to understand much about my own sexuality, my intense jealousy issues, and my own feelings about porn. I encourage you to be very cautious about condemning your partner in any way, as it is a very painful experience to be thought of as evil or deviant as a result of sexual impulses, social conditioning, or physical responses that we have, especially when we intended no harm. On the other hand, I would love to know more about the other characteristics of your boyfriend, because there are certainly people to be cautious of. I would also love to share more of my growth process with you at some point if you are interested. I have found tremendous relief from the pain and fear that had my stomach in knots for a very long time. |
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| shygal21 - princessm420@yahoo.com - 21 | | Comments - Not your typical non-orgasmic question.
I am 21 yrs old. I lost my virginity a year ago this past April. Last year in April when I lost my virginity I had intercourse maybe 10 times in a period of over 3 weeks. Since Easter of last year I only masturbated until late last month. So for 13 months I was not engaging in intercourse. During those 13 months I masturbated multiple times daily using a vibrator to stimulate my clitoris. More often than not I would always set the speed to the highest level. During masturbation I could reach orgasms with my toy. I was also able to reach orgasms stimulating my clitoris with my fingers but it took twice as long, if not more. From April 2003- Oct. 2003 I was single. I started dating a new guy in October but we did not engage in intercourse until late last month (May 2004). Thus the reason I only masturbated for 13 months.
Prior to my current boyfriend, like I said I had very little sexual experience whatsoever. I had never received oral sex prior to my current boyfriend. In the past my first sexual partner seemed to only care to get off instead of pleasing me. With my ex I faked every orgasm, he thought I ever had.
I don't want to do this with my current boyfriend. He is older than me by over 10 years. He has had 16 other sexual partners in the past before me. I worry that I am hurting his ego and making him self-concious. He knows that I have never experienced an orgasm with another person. He knows that I faked every orgasm I ever "had" with my ex. He is very patient with me in and out of bed. I just worry that something is wrong with me.
So, we spent two weeks being intimate almost every day recently. We tried intercourse in many positions. We tried having him stimulate my clitoris with his fingers while he was penetrating me. We tried me doing the same to my clitoris. We tried having him perform oral sex on me for over an hour. He finally told me he had to stop because his jaw was killing him. He said to me one night that he was concerned that he didn't please me. When we are intimate what we engage in does feel good but it's never enough to bring me to orgasm. I showed him how I liked my clit stimulated by placing his hand over my clit and mine on top showing him how I stimulate it msyelf. Nothing every worked. We even tried having a few drinks to relax. We tried setting a different mood with different lighting and music. We tried taking a candlelight bath together, foreplay for hours, etc.. I even tried not focusing on the big picture. Focusing on the good feelings I was experiencing when he was just touching me, or massaging me, or kissing me, or rubbing my clit, etc. We tried everything! Nothing brought me to orgasm.
I recently read that using toys too much can desensitize your clitoris. Could this be my problem? If so, how long does one have to go without using toys for the sensation to come back? Does it even come back if one stops? I haven't masturbated at all for a little over a week now in hopes of having things change.
Any help would extremely be appreciated. I don't know what to do. Maybe its all just a mental hangup. I don't know! I love this guy and I fear his ego will be hurt if this continues much longer.
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| habitstv - HabitsTV@aardvarkpost.com - 25 | | Comments - Do you find yourself constantly participating in internet chat sex or cybersex? How about anonymous sex, group sex or even prostitution? Do you find yourself having affairs outside of your primary relationship? Have you ever considered the possibility that you could be suffering from a sexual addiction? Is your interest in sex disrupting your life, your career, ruining your relationship?
We are a new documentary series looking for sex addicts to appear on camera to tell their side of the story. This is a very personal story about one individual’s personal crisis. Please contact us at 818 728 6609 or email HabitsTV@aardvarkpost.com
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| Aces - lms58222000@yahoo.com - 61 | | Comments - I have the problem of being able to reach and erectin only when I receive oral sex. When I try to have normal sex it is impossible for me to reach an erection. Can anyone tell me whay this problem exisits. |
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| jeanette - jeanettepat2@yahoo.com - 57 | | Comments - Hi Everyone,
I have been dealing with sexual addiction since I first was married in 1971. At the time I did not see it as an addiction. I do now. I was abused in a foster home by the foster parent when I was 3-4 years old and then by the neighbor at the age of 9-11. I have acted out since I first married my husband. Affairs, swinging and 3somes. I have now gotten to the source of my sadness about what I was doing. All of my worth was tied into being sexual. Therein lies all the pain and anguish. That is all I thought I was, a body. Since I never experienced any love in the foster homes I lived in, I sought out men to ease my pain. All I was doing was acting out of that pain. I have chosen to stop hurting myself. I am strong and will beat this. I am constantly striving to heal all the wounds of a very abusive childhood. Sexual abuse was not the only abuse, there was physical and emotional abuse. I am a survivor!!!!!!!!! |
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| Esmeralda - m_esmeralda79@yahoo.com - 25 | | Comments - Hello everyone, I know that in order to submit to the community wall I must have, or had a sexual dysfunction, however, I do not have any sexual dysfunction. I am taking a sexual addiction class and it has been difficult to obtain any information in this topic. I would appreciate if anyone could answer these questions in order to understand this addiction a little more. If you do not feel comfortable submitting these question to the community wall please email them to me at m_esmeralda79@yahoo.com. (m_esmeralda79) You don’t need to answer every question. Thank you, any help would be appreciated.
1. How would you describe your sexuality as you were growing up? Tell me something about your birth culture and how sexuality was perceived in this culture? What are your thoughts as to how our present culture impacts our sexuality and how express ourselves?
2. How would you describe your family of origin and the environment in which you were raised? How would you describe the relationship, including sexual intimacy you observed between parents?
3. How would you describe your first sexual experience? Was the experience a positive one?
4. What was the frequency of your sexual activities when you ere an adolescent? Describe any sexual events that had significant developmental impact on you.
5. Please describe your most intensive, repeated sexual behavior or fantasy that has been most problematic for you. What was your experience of it initially, and how did it change over time? How did it become repetitive?
6. When did this behavior begin? What happening in your life at that time? When did it become excessive? If there were physical or medical risk involved in this behavior, what were they and how did you think about the risks?
7. How has the intensity of this behavior changed since it became excessive? What was your experience if/when you attempted to get help in stopping or managing this behavior? If the behavior resurfaced, what was your experience of this? How did you understand a failed attempt? Where did you assign blame?
8. If you attempted to modify or stop the behavior, what was that like for you? If you felt in control of the behavior, how did you think/feel about that?
9. How has this had a detrimental effect on your emotional health? Family relationships/friendships? Work? Other aspects or areas of your life?
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| Esmeralda - m_esmeralda79@yahoo.com - 25 | | Comments - HELP!!!!HELP!!!!!!Help!!! Hello everyone, I know that in order to submit to the community wall I must have, or had a sexual dysfunction, however, I do not have any sexual dysfunction. I am taking a sexual addiction class and it has been difficult to obtain any information in this topic. I would appreciate if anyone could answer these questions in order to understand this addiction a little more. If you do not feel comfortable submitting these question to the community wall please email them to me at m_esmeralda79@yahoo.com. (m_esmeralda79) You don’t need to answer every question. Thank you, any help would be appreciated.
1. How would you describe your sexuality as you were growing up? Tell me something about your birth culture and how sexuality was perceived in this culture? What are your thoughts as to how our present culture impacts our sexuality and how express ourselves?
2. How would you describe your family of origin and the environment in which you were raised? How would you describe the relationship, including sexual intimacy you observed between parents?
3. How would you describe your first sexual experience? Was the experience a positive one?
4. What was the frequency of your sexual activities when you ere an adolescent? Describe any sexual events that had significant developmental impact on you.
5. Please describe your most intensive, repeated sexual behavior or fantasy that has been most problematic for you. What was your experience of it initially, and how did it change over time? How did it become repetitive?
6. When did this behavior begin? What happening in your life at that time? When did it become excessive? If there were physical or medical risk involved in this behavior, what were they and how did you think about the risks?
7. How has the intensity of this behavior changed since it became excessive? What was your experience if/when you attempted to get help in stopping or managing this behavior? If the behavior resurfaced, what was your experience of this? How did you understand a failed attempt? Where did you assign blame?
8. If you attempted to modify or stop the behavior, what was that like for you? If you felt in control of the behavior, how did you think/feel about that?
9. How has this had a detrimental effect on your emotional health? Family relationships/friendships? Work? Other aspects or areas of your life?
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| Destiny Ray - slit_my_wrist_and_lived_to_tell@yahoo.com - 14 | | Comments - I aM gAy AnD i NeEd HeLp!!!! |
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| carrie - runbaby1163 - 30 | | Comments - My ex husband was addicted to porn and it ended our marriage. I have great diffuculty with sex in my current marriage and am struggling with the fact that my current husband looks at porn. I would love to talk to someone in a similar situation. Help? |
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| carrie - runbaby1163@yahoo.com - 30 | | Comments - My ex husband was addicted to porn and it ended our marriage. I have great diffuculty with sex in my current marriage and am struggling with the fact that my current husband looks at porn. I would love to talk to someone in a similar situation. Help? |
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| kerry - ryenwater50@hotmail.com - 53 | | Comments - I have sexual deviant issues that i cant explain please reply |
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| Frank L - scafrankl@hotmail.com - 70 | | Comments - I am a recovering sex addict and want to share the rich documentation on the first of the prominent 12 step groups for sex addicts. It was SCA and started in 1973 as you'll see if you check scaorigins.com
This is about how the Sexual Recovery Movement got started in 1973. There are those of us who are still around at the very beginning of the first of the five Sexual Recovery Groups. It was SCA. At a new website, you can see how the press described the first of these groups and how the Sexual Recovery Movement got started after the Rev. Troy Perry gave us a place to meet. Back when we started these first Twelve Step meetings, during the 1970"s, we received press from Newsweek, the Advocate, the Los Angeles Free Press, Pacific Radio Station KPFK, etc. I've kept copies of most of these press clippings and you can see many of them at a new website called http://scaorigins.com and this press coverage helped inspire others to follow our lead by starting their own sex-related 12 Step Groups. Some of the first members travelled and sometimes moved to other cities where they started new chapters. Gradually, some of us learned to fight lust and sexual compulsiveness and decide on a sexual definition of sobriety
that worked for us. Several years after the 1973 beginnings, the term sexual addiction also began to be used sometimes. There has been a lot of confusion about starting dates of the various sexual recovery organizations. The scaorigins.com web site provides the most reliable documenting of the first "S" Group"s genesis. Some of this documentation was shared at an SCA conference in February 2005 at Hollywood California"s Plummer Park. I gave the opening talk of the conference about what it was like when Sexual Compulsives Anonymous began in 1973. Roy, the founder of Sexaholics Anonymous came to some of those 70"s SCA meetings while we were trying to discover what sexual sobriety was. He ended up with a different definition. Not long after SCA started, Roy created Sexaholics Anonymous. But SA wasn"t first! Later would come Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous and Sex Recovery Anonymous,etc.
Frank L.
scafrankl@hotmail.com
scafrankl@yahoo.com
Please send any response to both of the above email addresses.
Check out the following blogs too, and feel free to add your own input!
1st-s-recoverygroup.blogspot.com
scafrankl.blogspot.com
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| judy - thrombojs@yahoo.com - 24 | | Comments - Being hurt is like getting cut the cut disappears but the scar is always there. |
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| judy - thrombojs@yahoo.com - 24 | | Comments - Can n e one help me? My husband likes when woman squirt ALOT when they have an orgasm, I squirt but not as much as I would like for the pleasure of pleasing him. I really don't know how to play w/myself either b/c I think it feels better with a man. Can Anyone give me advice on the squirting and any suggestions on how pleasuring myself wouldn't be so bad? |
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| birungigrace - kivulu_kivx@yahoo.com - 20 | | Comments - Many societies view sexual,matters differently because of the cultural strings attacthed to sex.But as the war on aids,immorality,defilment goes on public awareness must be strengthened. |
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| birungigrace - kivulu_kivx@yahoo.com - 20 | | Comments - Many societies view sexual,matters differently because of the cultural strings attacthed to sex.But as the war on aids,immorality,defilment goes on public awareness must be strengthened. |
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| Joseph Romero - kc5mip@earthlink.net - 60 | | Comments - getting help from the VA after 35 years from sexaul assult that went on for 6 months I had my frist hand free orgasm with use of E-stim. I dont want any relationship or intimacy or sexaul fantasies and with the help of Vardenafil has work for me for the frist time in 35 years. it was wonderfull but also very painful expreience and after it had happen I felt my face flushing and nech pain and my legs cramp up , that was painful but I guess that what need to be done to funcation like the rest of the people. I can only say wow. what an experience. I never thought it would be like this. I am working again. I am taking it slowly so I am going to bve careful and make sure I take all of this slow |
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| Joseph Romero - kc5mip@earthlink.net - 60 | | Comments - I do want to clear up the fact that I have had around 25 I think sexaul expreience but not fuctionally to have an orgasm and complete and with a full erection. The use of E-stim and Vardenafil. I cont even put into word how wonderful this new expreience fro me after 35 years after the assult. I have almost stop the OCD and SI with I do to myself on the area from the shame and gulte I feel inside. Touch use to be very painful 5 years ago and I have had to learn that touch is ok. but it really not me. I afread of getting to close to people to be invole like I did for a short time and I dont want any intimacy that comes with it.for me I fine it not fine for me and ther use of sexaul fantasies that people use to get to get off. I get very sick at jokes that men make about woman as if they were nothing or not a person. The "Vardenafil" is an aswer to a prayer. to me and no complications of being with people and relsationship. at 60 year old I lost almost 40 year of what should have been a nornal life and that was taken away from me 35 years ago. I dont know how to express this wonderfull feeling that happen the other day with Vardenafil pills. , I do go to art therapy at the VA every monday . The only way I could express what happen is in art. I am going to work on a mural og the 35 years and now. I dont have the words to express Oct 3. which I can say is the beginning of a new life. I hope . |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - EvilFantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - EvilFantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - EvilFantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - EvilFantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - Evil_Fantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - Evil_Fantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - Repeat after me:
"Sex is GOOD"
"Sex is NORMAL"
"Viewing porn is NORMAL"
Additional notes:
Stay away from 12-step programs & nutjob Christians.
The Bible is a hoax. How many of you believe such nonsense, just because a bunch of wackos (who have been dead for eons, I might add) said so? No human mind can conceive the secrets of the universe, so I suggest you get off your moral high-horses, and cease contemplating the unfathomable.
I'm also a proud Agnostic. : )
Masturbation is normal, healthy, and quite necessary (especially for men). Men who masturbate more frequently, live longer & healthier lives. Aching testicles will accomplish little more than a foul mood and a funny walk. So, touch yourself... often, and send me pics, if possible. ; )
Stay away from people who try to convince you that sex is dirty/bad/wrong. These individuals are to be pittied... oh, and most of all, ignored. Misery loves company, and if they aren't having any fun, odds are they don't want you to, either.
AIDS? It is my opinion that this disease was purposely cooked up in a lab by the likes of Jerry Fallwell or Pat Robertson or some other Christian asshat, for the sole purpose of inhibiting everyone's sexuality.
Those who tamper with Nature are the true evil-doers.
Sex is pleasurable, natural, and should be done as often as possible. Dolphins seem to have already figured this out.
: )
I love men with large, round testicles.
Guys, if a woman asks you to shave your body hair, tell her to go eat a muff, because she is obviously a lesbian.
Male body hair rules... don't shave it!
The sky is blue... mostly.
That is all. |
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| A Horny & Proud Female - Evil_Fantasies@inbox.com - 31 | | Comments - The above email is the correct one. Feel free to contact me (men only). ; )
The numerous posts were due to an alleged error that claimed my comments didn't go through. *shrug* |
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You are who you are
Love me or hate me
I'm just trying to be
no matter whom that may be
the real me
so just love me for me
i accept you for you
so let me be me |
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| Shirryka - LaFountaine - 18 | | Comments - I am who I am
You are who you are
Love me or hate me
I'm just trying to be
no matter whom that may be
the real me
so just love me for me
i accept you for you
so let me be me |
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| Shirryka - LaFountaine - 18 | | Comments - I am who I am
You are who you are
Love me or hate me
I'm just trying to be
no matter whom that may be
the real me
so just love me for me
i accept you for you
so let me be me |
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