Helping Your Child
With
Arithmetic And Math
Keeping score on games played at home. There are any number of activities
that children can do at home which require tallying. Mom and Dad might play a game, and
the child can record points by using the style of clustering four straight (upright) lines
with the fifth running diagonally. Then, he can figure the totals by counting by fives.
Give your child loads of opportunities to estimate
space. This can be a family game if the conditions for involving other children are
satisfactory. "How long do you suppose that table is?" Then it can be measured
with a ruler or yardstick. The exact number of inches or feet is not critical. The
question can be phrased so that the number of lengths is the critical factor. For example,
"How many times would this ruler go across that table? You guess and I'll guess. Then
we'll measure it. " You can practice estimating the distance across a room or up a
wall, for example, in handprints, footsteps, paces, etc.
Measuring wall. Every home should have one wall that is used for
keeping track of growth. Measure your child frequently and date each entry directly on the
wall. Let him see how much he has grown as you measure him every month or every three
months.
The same thing can be done with plants. There are many bulb plants that
grow quickly in a pot or jar. Put a ruler beside the container and let your child record
the amount of growth each day. He can, keep a chart, with your help, to determine the
daily growth.
Teaching children to tell time would be far simpler if training clocks
had only an hour hand. If you happen to have a clock that Dad can take apart, remove the
minute hand. Use a clock face with Arabic numerals. By using
this dock, initially, and having it designated as "Johnny's clock," your child
can see that it is "almost eleven," or "halfway between nine and ten; or,
-a little after seven." When your child begins to understand words like
"almost," "after," "in between," and how to use them, he
will be ready to move to the two-hand clock.
Counting backwards is a game that children like because it ends
with "Blast-off!" The skill of backwards counting is one that eventually develops the ability to
understand subtracting by ones. It is also a visualization skill. Try starting from just
"8" or "16" as practice. Count aloud with your child.
Counting and clustering real objects. Use beads or paper clips or
buttons or poker chips-anything your child can grasp and that is not too law or too tiny.
Let him arrange them into patterns or designs. Try clustering them into groups of two or
three. Ask him for a specific number or trade items with turn.
Concentration. This game can be played in a number of ways. Generally,
a specific number of playing cards are placed, face down, on the table. Your child turns a
card over, one at a time, attempting to match two cards. The game calls for remembering
where specific cards are placed, as he systematically searches for pairs. If he does not
match a pair, cards are kept face down. Pairs are removed from the table. The game can be
played with two people-or more.
"Fish" can also be played with playing cards. The object is
to ask your opponent if he has a card you need to make a pair. Each player starts with
four cards. Players take turns asking their opponent for a matching card. If the opponent
does not have the "match," the asking player draws from the card stack. The game
however, can be played as a multiplication game. Whatever pair is gotten, the child
doubles or triples the face value of the cards.
Maintaining a daily calendar teaches, in an almost incidental way,
adding by seven and multiplying by seven. Children can make their own calendars, with
assistance, and then keep track of the passage of tune by crossing out each day after it
has passed.
There are many ways of using division around the house if opportunities
are used when they are available. In fact, creating them helps even more. Let your child
assist you in separating things into even clusters. For example, after baking cookies, let
your child assist you in solving the problem of how many should go into each place. As an
incidental factor, mention, "That's right, twenty-one cookies and seven plates means
each person gets three cookies-because 7 times 3 is 2 1. "
Mathematical, sequential reasoning enters into all kinds of daily uses.
Determining halves, quarters, thirds, et cetera, when separating things is done daily in
many households; for example, "Let's split this apple. You take half and I'll take
the other half." Asking children to follow the directions involved in simple cooking
activities gives them the opportunity to measure, mix, and follow a sequence to a natural
conclusion.
Here's a game that is fun and can be regularly played. Write a number
over each letter of the alphabet. Let your child use a "master card" so that he
can refer to it. That is, A has a 1 over it, B has 2, C has 3, etc. Then write a message
like "Dad + Jimmy = _________." The problem is solved by changing each letter to
a number, adding them, and then getting the total. You can also use division by writing
"Dad divided by C = - ." (Likewise, you can use subtraction and multiplication
as well.)
Counting with another activity is extremely helpful. Teachers call this
the "one-to-one correspondence." For example, as a child moves his piece in a
board game, have him count aloud each time he moves the piece. Have him count aloud as he
takes each step when he walks across the room. Have him clap his hands as he counts or
clap for each step as he hops across the yard.
The arithmetic children use in school, that is, number problems on a
page, are really a formalization of all kinds of experiences dealing with measurements,
time, and space. Children who are performing poorly in math at school do not need drilling
at home of specific problems. If they are to develop the foundations for competency in
math, they need multiple experiences that allow them to reason with numbers in their
activities of daily living. These activities will allow them, in turn, to develop the
generalizations necessary for handling the formal arithmetic they encounter at school.
Enjoyable, fun experiences will go further toward helping your child than a repetition of
the frustration he regularly faces when confronted with formal math.
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