Living with dissociative identity disorder (DID) presents unique difficulties, whether you’re the one that has it or the person who loves the one living with it. I can only imagine how frustrating, confusing, even painful it must sometimes be to have a partner with DID.
I’ve witnessed how challenging it often is for my own partner and, if some of the comments I’ve received here at Dissociative Living are in any way representative, her experience is typical. But it’s also largely ignored. Partners of people with DID don’t get that much support or encouragement, primarily because only those who’ve been there can truly understand (Caregiver Stress and Compassion Fatigue).