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Anxiety and Overthinking Everything

Anxiety and overthinking tend to be evil partners. One of the horrible hallmarks of any type of anxiety disorder is the tendency to overthink everything. The anxious brain is hypervigilant, always on the lookout for anything it perceives to be dangerous or worrisome. I’ve been accused of making problems where there aren’t any. To me, though, there are, indeed, problems. Why? Because anxiety causes me to overthink everything. Anxiety makes us overthink everything in many different ways, and the result of this overthinking isn’t helpful at all. Fortunately, anxiety and overthinking everything doesn’t have to be a permanent part of our existence. 

Ways Anxiety Causes Overthinking

An effect of any type of anxiety is overthinking everything. There are common themes to the way anxiety causes overthinking. Perhaps this generic list will remind you of specific racing thoughts you experience and help you realize that you’re not alone in overthinking everything because of anxiety.

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  • Obsessing over what we should say/should have said/did say/didn’t say (common in social anxiety)
  • Worrying incessantly about who we are and how we are measuring up to the world (common in social and performance anxiety)
  • Creating fearful what-if scenarios about things that could go wrong for ourselves, loved ones, and the world (common in generalized anxiety disorder)
  • Wild, imagined results of our own wild, imagined faults and incompetencies (all anxiety disorders)
  • Fear of having a panic attack in public and possibly thinking that you can’t leave home because of it (panic disorder with or without agoraphobia)
  • Worrying about a multitude of obsessive thoughts, sometimes scary ones and thinking about them constantly (obsessive-compulsive disorder)
  • Thinking — overthinking — a tumbling chain of worries, vague thoughts, and specific thoughts (all anxiety disorders)

Result of Anxiety and Overthinking

With anxiety, not only are these thoughts (and more) running through our brains, but they are always running through our brains, non-stop, endlessly. Like a gerbil hooked up to an endless drip of an energy drink, they run and run and wheel around in one place, going absolutely nowhere. Day and night, the wheel squeaks.

Anxiety and overthinking everything makes us both tired and wired. One result of the thinking too much that comes with anxiety is that we are often left feeling physically and emotionally unwell. Having these same anxious messages run through our head everywhere we go takes its toll.

Further, another dangerous result of anxiety and overthinking everything is that we start to believe what we think. After all, if we think it, it’s real, and if we think it constantly, it’s very real. Right? No. This is a trick anxiety plays. Anxiety causes overthinking, but with anxiety, these thoughts aren’t always trustworthy.

You have the power and the ability to interfere in anxiety’s overthinking everything. It’s a process that involves many steps, but a step you can take right now to slow down that gerbil is to have something with you or around you to divert your attention. Rather than arguing with your thoughts or obsessing over them, gently shift your attention onto something else, something neutral. By thinking about something insignificant, you weaken anxiety’s ability to cause you to overthink everything.

I explain this further in the below video. I invite you to tune in.

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40 thoughts on “Anxiety and Overthinking Everything”

  1. Great tip Tanya. I also have to say that your voice makes me calm. You could do videos on growing cucumbers and I would listen…haha. That’s a wonderful gift you have. Hope your New Year is peaceful and all that you want it to be.

    1. Hi Sheila,
      I love your comment! 🙂 I think that very few people actually like the sound of their own voice, so I appreciate this. Hmmm…gardening can be effective in reducing anxiety, so maybe videos on growing cucumbers would be okay!

      1. I have to agree. YOUR video distracted me and neutralized my racing thoughts. But it was too short! And I don’t think you’d appreciate it if I tried to put you in my pocket! Lol. JK. I’m anxious but not a lunatic. Loved the video. Thank you. Where do we get the rest of the tips? I’m in! Cheers, Kate

        1. Hello Kate,
          Thank you for the wonderful laugh! I don’t think you’d appreciate it if I were in your pocket because I typically don’t hold still! 😀 And I must thank you for saying that the video is actually too short. I have a tendency to make everything too long! I’ll keep tips coming. 🙂

  2. GAD is one of the things I suffer from. I hope 2016 is better for everyone. 2015 was alittle better than 2014. 2014 was not too good. Good luck everyone. Anxiety does put many, many weird thoughts in out brain and it does age us pretty fast.

  3. I have GAD, prob some PTSD, that depression accompanies my disorders. Overthinking is right. My overthinking can start my anxiety, and tornado it, till I am in full panic. Thanks for the reassuring information.

    1. Hi Allen,
      Tornado is an absolutely ideal word for this overthinking. Anchoring ourselves during the overthinking storm is important. And thinking of this as a storm we can prepare for, weather, reduce its impact, and start over is a good way to look at this. 🙂

  4. Ok so I’m a teenager. And I am very sure I have GAD and social anxiety. I will overthink everything. I even over think multiple choice questions. Like will think to myself, “ok. So this is the question and then this is what I put down. So I answered my question like this. Is that the right answer? Did I read the question wrong?” Yeah it’s scary because when I’m taking tests I will take forever and when I finally turn it in I will get so nervous that I read the question wrong or wrote it wrong. It sucks. And I get paranoid thoughts a lot. I don’t trust people very well. I also if someone looks at me I will think of the worst things ever. The things that go through my mind is scary and irrational.

    For social anxiety- I am a very outgoing person. But I worry about what they think of me or how I sound (I have vocal chord paralysis. So I sound weird

    1. Hi Laure,
      Anxiety has a nasty habit of telling us we sound weird. It also makes us question things and people. You’ve described some of anxiety’s tricks very well. I get what you mean about multiple choice tests (true/false, too). I always overthought them too. Do you have something that you do or a place where you go where anxiety doesn’t make you overthink? Engaging in something meaningful (and safe) is a great way to give yourself a break from anxiety. Talking to someone about your anxiety can be helpful, too. Know that you’re not alone, and you’re not weird. 🙂

      1. I over think everything. I create issues with loved ones because of it. I always say I’m gonna try be better however when I think something in my head I go off the rails again. It’s talking over my life and I’m not even over reacting. Please help me. I feel like I’m phyco.

        1. Hi Caitlin,

          You’re definitely not “psycho” or “crazy” or anything like that! It can be beyond frustrating when the brain races off, overthinking even the smallest things; it’s worse than frustrating when it interferes in our lives. Given that our thoughts, feelings, and actions are interconnected, it makes sense that this interferes in life. The good news is that you are aware of your thoughts and what they’re doing. Sometimes people aren’t fully aware of this. Now that you’re aware, it’s possible to separate your thoughts from who you are and what you do. We can’t fully control what pops into our minds, but we do have control over how we react. Accepting these as just thoughts and then tuning into the present moment — what is really happening rather than what your mind thinks is happening — you can begin to break free of the trap.

  5. Hi Tanya, thank you for the video and literature.
    I have been struggling with what I can now describe as “a mind override”. I am not particularly worried about things, I instead think/mostly visualise situations, systems ..anything. My mind picks up anything and runs through it in a split second I think physically it could take me years to go through the same thought when normal. Its like I meditate with resistance and fast.

    Recently I speak to myself a lot and I feel tired and don’t get enough sleep. I feel that I should see a doctor but I am not sure how to put it.

    Can you help explain to me what could be happening.
    Caroline.

    1. Hi Caroline,
      The “mind override” you describe (great term, by the way) is a very frustrating experience, especially when thoughts never seem to slow down. Everyone’s experiences are unique, so of course I won’t claim to have had your exact experience, but I will say that I’ve dealt with various forms of racing thoughts and know how intrusive they can be. There are absolutely things that you can do to help this, and you don’t have to live with this mind override forever. Your idea of seeing a doctor is wise. I would never want to do harm to you by trying to state what you’re experiencing in an online setting where it’s impossible to gather all of the important information (including lab tests — a doctor might want to do blood work, etc. to rule out various medical conditions). A while back, I wrote an article that included a checklist for talking with a doctor. Not quite knowing how to put things is a very common concern. The article addresses talking to a doctor about medication, but it applies to situations beyond medication. You can use the concepts to help you communicate with a doctor. Don’t give up. There really are ways to overcome all of this. Here’s the link to the checklist: http://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/anxiety-schmanxiety/2014/11/talking-to-your-doctor-about-anxiety-medication/

  6. Thank you Tanya, it’s helpful to know I can organise myself to put together my thoughts and my physical self before a doctor.
    Besides the “override” I have constant nausea, I don’t vomit. I snow ready to send a doctor. Thank you again for your help.
    Caroline.

  7. I over think everything.. Peoples opinions even their facial expressions ” what did they mean by that” when I am alone annylizing what I said or what they meant.
    Me and my son are having it hard . hes 17.. I accues him of smoking, drugs etc. He brought the car home full of mud. I have him a speech. He said he was sorry but I kept over explainimg, going on . he said he told me he was sorry . I always think the worst. Working on my atv I get 8 opinions all different and then I’m a mess. I take clonazepam , effexor, Strattera and lithium but it’s doesnt shut my brain off. Its ruining me, I’m no longer a people person

    1. Hi Shannon,

      Yes — even facial expressions! Tone, expressions, posture, positioning; so many things other than “just” the words. You’re not alone. Overthinking is a very common aspect of any type of anxiety. How often to you have a chance to check in with your doctor? Sometimes, medication actually makes things worse, depending on the individual person. It might be something to ask your doctor. Share what’s going on and how you feel you are changing. Sometimes, adjusting dosages or medications can make a difference. It’s definitely needs to be done with a doctor, though, because changing medication on your own, even if it seems like a small change, can be very dangerous. You know yourself and how you want to be. Don’t stop pursuing it!

  8. i overthink death a lot, and the after life. Im depressed and I want to be happy again. Im catholic btw, which is why i keep doubting God and heaven.

    1. Hello gurll,
      Death and the unknown of what follows are common sources of fear and anxiety. Then, if we feel guilty for questioning things like this — like we should just accept what we’ve been taught — our anxiety seems to increase, and depression can increase, too. Sometimes the act of giving yourself permission to question and explore can help relieve anxiety and depression. Of course this doesn’t completely eradicate depression and bring back happiness, but it’s often a powerful first step.

  9. I so enjoyed your video Tanya. I am going to try this trick today for distraction and changing my thoughts. I am still reading My Life in a Nutshell. It is taking me unusually long just because we have been so busy lately “downsizing” and getting ready for my husband’s retirement. I loved your videos and they were very helpful. Overthinking is so me…….always making assumptions and usually negative ones. They have even caused problems with loved ones and I really hate that!! I bet I have every book written on anxiety, so I ask, why is it still here??? Of course anxiety and depression seem to go hand in hand, so there is that to deal with. I love the website Healthy Place and reading all the articles. They have been, as well as you and your books, some of the most helpful and enjoyable books to read. Can’t wait to start Twenty Four Shadows!!!

    1. Hi Ann!
      Thank you so much for your comments and feedback! Everything I write — articles/posts for HealthyPlace and my novels (that all relate to mental illness/health) — comes from the heart and from experience. I try to share helpful information, ideas, etc. Like not overthinking. Anxiety definitely makes people, myself included, overthink things. And when you have so much going on in your life like preparing for your husband’s retirement, anxiety’s games tend to get worse. I hope that the information here truly does help!

  10. I have had anxiety in some form for quite some time but never as severe as the last couple of years. Oddly until recently, I had never tied in the overthinking to this. This concern has increased, making me and those around me somewhat miserable at times. My husband was diagnosed with cancer a little under two years ago. He has been through 2 bone marrow transplants but is actually in remission and doing better now. Although i am happy about this and the constant fight or flight feeling has left me, I now seem to be more negative than before with so much overthinking about EVERYTHING. No matter what I analyze everything to the point of finding the negative or worse case scenario. This is zapping my joy and making it impossible for me to enjoy almost anything. this is not good for me or my husband who needs to be thinking positive thoughts to stay better. It’s one thing to recognize this in yourself but much harder to readjust your thinking. Any help you can provide is appreciated.

    1. Hello Ms Bags,
      Overthinking everything is something that can be both caused by anxiety and something that increases anxiety. It’s a vicious cycle that is maddening. Your description of what it’s doing to you is spot-on. Your keen awareness of this is a very good thing and is actually the first step in overcoming it. You’re right that the readjusting your thinking aspect of it is difficult. Know that it’s a process, often a slow one, but progressive nonetheless. Working with a therapist who practices cognitive-behavior therapy can be very helpful. CBT can be done in self-help format (there are many great books out there; just a search at a bookstore (off- or online) or library will yield a lot of results), but it can be slower going. That said, there are things you can start right now. Two key things to do: be very intentional about noticing and catching your thoughts and then challenge/question them and replace them with something more realistic; additionally, focus on joy–identify what reduces stress and increases happiness. Do more of that. Concentrate on making good moments throughout your day. Together, these steps are an important part of changing your thinking.

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