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Anxiety and Overthinking Everything

Anxiety and Overthinking Everything

Anxiety and overthinking tend to be evil partners. One of the horrible hallmarks of any type of anxiety disorder is the tendency to overthink everything. The anxious brain is hypervigilant, always on the lookout for anything it perceives to be dangerous or worrisome. I’ve been accused of making problems where there aren’t any. To me, though, there are, indeed, problems. Why? Because anxiety causes me to overthink everything. Anxiety makes us overthink everything in many different ways, and the result of this overthinking isn’t helpful at all. Fortunately, anxiety and overthinking everything doesn’t have to be a permanent part of our existence. 

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Anxiety: Best of 2015 List

Anxiety: Best of 2015 List

Few people would place anxiety among their “best of 2015” lists. It is, though, that time when the year winds down and “best of” lists abound. Is it possible to make a list entitled “Anxiety: Best of 2015?” Not only is it possible, it’s actually a pretty good thing to do (How To Create An Emergency Anxiety Tool Kit). Here’s how to make a best of 2015 list for anxiety and why you should consider making one of your own. 

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Anxiety And Self-Deprecation: Belittling Yourself Does Not Help

Anxiety And Self-Deprecation: Belittling Yourself Does Not Help

Anxiety and self-deprecation often go together. I have a pretty self-deprecating sense of humour. When I was younger, I would often intentionally say something unintelligent or wrong in order to get a quick laugh. This evolved over time. I learnt how to tell an overblown story about myself where I am both protagonist and punchline due to some personal, exaggerated foible or other. Even today, I can find myself mimicking the stereotyped words or actions of a caricature to endear me closer to friends who may already have a certain, fond view of me: a little nerdy, a little pretentious and slightly clumsy. Often in life it’s just too painful to take yourself seriously. Sometimes, for those of us with anxiety, it can even feel too utterly humiliating to take yourself seriously. After all, we anxiety sufferers are not always sure who we are exactly and, during darker times, what we have to present to the world in terms of an identity. When you have anxiety, you can be overly self-deprecating.

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Anxiety and a Sense of Control

Anxiety and a Sense of Control

Anxiety is often related to a sense of control; anxiety can be caused by a lack of a sense of control in one or more areas of life. This lack of control can cause a powerless feeling in the face of fears and worries. The lack of a sense of control can leave us feeling anxious, worried, or fearful when we don’t think we should be. When you feel a vague, nagging worry, tension, edginess, or irritability but, frustratingly, can’t identify a reason, perhaps the anxiety is connected to sense of control. How, exactly, can this sense of control cause anxiety? And what can we do about it? 

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Mind-Reading and Projecting in Social Anxiety

Mind-Reading and Projecting in Social Anxiety

Social anxiety rarely works alone. Mind-reading and projecting, two negative thoughts that manipulate your mind, contribute to social anxiety, feeding it and super-sizing it. Social anxiety can be exhausting because of the chatter of racing thoughts going on inside the head. Someone with social anxiety takes in what’s going on around him while simultaneously listening to harsh internal dialogue berating him and telling him he’s worthless and that everyone else thinks so, too. Social anxiety can be a monster, and mind-reading and projecting are among its minions. 

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Caffeine’s Effects on Anxiety

Caffeine’s Effects on Anxiety

Does caffeine affect anxiety? Studies continue on the notion of the side-effects of caffeine and whether or not they include anxiety, and at this point, there isn’t a definitive answer. Some studies indicate that, yes, caffeine does impact anxiety; indeed, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), the authority on mental disorders published by the American Psychological Association, acknowledges the existence of caffeine-induced anxiety disorders. Other studies fall short of proving a real link between caffeine and anxiety. The question that matters most is this: what are the effects of caffeine on your anxiety? 

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Anxiety Symptoms Coming Across as Lying

Anxiety Symptoms Coming Across as Lying

Anxiety symptoms can sometime come across like we’re lying. In my third year of university I was accused by a flatmate of stealing a five pound note from a collection that, as a flat, we had scraped together for a group Easter meal. I may have been mistaken for lying because of my anxiety symptoms. Not a huge amount, but this incident continues to hurt me long into my graduate life.

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Room for Gratitude in an Anxious Brain. Really?

Room for Gratitude in an Anxious Brain. Really?

An anxious brain is an active brain, and it can feel that there’s only space for anxiety and certainly no room for gratitude. Don’t be mistaken; it’s not that people living with anxiety don’t have gratitude in their heart. Having an anxious brain doesn’t mean that someone is cold, uncaring, or ungrateful. Often, the opposite is true: sometimes people experience anxiety such as social anxiety disorder or generalized anxiety disorder because they care a great deal. People living with anxiety do have gratitude in their heart, but it can feel like there’s no room for gratitude in an anxious brain (Anxiety: It’s In Your Head [Your Brain]). This latter part, though, is a false belief. 

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How to Turn Anxiety into Action

How to Turn Anxiety into Action

Anxiety can stop us in our tracks, and the idea of turning anxiety into action can seem impossible. Anxiety involves worry and fear. Together, these make a team of control-freaks that attempts to keep people from living their lives fully, from stepping forward confidently into the world. Anxiety prevents people from taking action. However, did you know that you can turn anxiety into action? Here’s a simple formula to turn your anxiety into action. 

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Over-Apologising with An Anxiety Disorder — I’m Not Sorry

Over-Apologising with An Anxiety Disorder — I’m Not Sorry

Sometimes I have to say I’m not sorry because I over-apologize thanks to my anxiety disorder. Apologising is a positive thing when done sincerely and is an act that can wield great power. In fact, it can often be an extremely brave thing to do indeed. To admit that you are somehow in the wrong is a vital part of human communication and is a skill that many stubborn people would do well to learn (I Was Wrong And I Am Sorry). However, for those of us with anxiety we can find ourselves saying sorry way too much and often unnecessarily. Sometimes I over-apologize because of my anxiety disorder.

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