• I am a capable person. 

• I am a competent person. 

• I am an intelligent person.

• I am a worthwhile person. 

• I can dare to take a risk. 

• I am entitled to good. 

• I choose to be happy. 

• I can ask for what I want. 

• I can say what I feel.

• I am a radiant expression of God.

• I trust and follow my inner guidance.

• I am an unlimited being. 

• I can create anything I want. 

• I picture abundance for myself and others.

• I have a right to exist.

• I can dare to see what I see.

• I can dare to think what I think. 

• I can dare to question anything. 

• I can dare to feel what I feel.

• I have a right  to come to my own conclusions.

• I am Happy Joyous and Free.

• I have a right to make mistakes. 

• I have a right to be wrong.

• I have within myself the answers to all my needs. 

• I am a beautiful person.

• I am free to be me.

• I do not need to prove myself. 

• My mind and body are now in balance and harmony and manifest divine perfection. 

• I accept responsibilities in my life happily and enthusiastically. 

• I am the master of my being and an active co-creator of my life.

• The entire Universe Loves me, serves me, nurtures me and wants me to win.

•  I am a success to the degree that I feel warm and loving to myself.

• My debts represent my & others beliefs in my future earning ability.

• The most important thing to my loved one's happiness is that I be happy first.

• My value and worth are increased by every thing I do. 

• All my experiences are opportunities to gain more power, clarity and vision.

• I can fill all my needs if I am willing to pay the price.

• I have a right to ask for and expect something in life.

• Comparison of myself with another is meaningless. 

• I am the center of my universe; my world revolves around me.

• The Christ/Goddess/Spirit within me is creating miracles in my life here and now.

We can tell ourselves good things!

I AM a magnificent Spiritual being having a Joyous and exciting human adventure!

If we Truly believed the positive affirmations we would not have to say them.  When we most need to say them is when we least believe them   when we are feeling the worst.  The source of all of our wounds ultimately is feeling abandoned by God, feeling unlovable to our Creator.

"Integrating the Spiritual Truth (the vertical) of an unconditionally Loving God-Force into our process is vital in order to take the crippling toxic shame about being imperfect humans out of the equation. That toxic shame is what makes it so hard for us to own our right to make choices instead of just reacting to someone else set of rules."

Column "Empowerment" By Robert Burney

We need to own that we have the power to choose where to focus our mind. We can consciously start viewing ourselves from the witness perspective.   It is time to fire the judge - our critical parent - and choose to replace that judge with our Higher Self - who is a loving parent. We can then intervene in our own process to protect ourselves from the perpetrator within - the critical parent/disease voice.

Article "Learning to Love your self" by Robert Burney

We need to stop giving power to the monster within.

"The "critical parent" voice in my head has always berated me for not being perfect, for being human. My expectations, the "shoulds," my disease piled on me were a way in which I victimized myself. I was always judging, shaming and beating myself up because as a little child I got the message that something was wrong with me. 

There is nothing wrong with me - or you. It is our relationship with ourselves and life that is dysfunctional. We are Spiritual beings who came into body in an emotionally dishonest, Spiritually hostile environment where everyone was trying to do human according to false belief systems. We were taught to expect life to be something that it isn't. It isn't our fault that things are so screwed up - it is however our responsibility to change the things we can within ourselves."

"I needed to learn how to set boundaries within, both emotionally and mentally by integrating Spiritual Truth into my process. Because "I feel like a failure" does not mean that is the Truth. The Spiritual Truth is that "failure" is an opportunity for growth." 

"The part of you that tells you that you are not lovable, that you are not worthy, that you are not deserving, is the disease. It is trying to maintain control because that is all that it knows how to do. We are not "better than." We are also not "less than." The messages that we are "better than" come from the same place that the messages of "less than" come from: the disease. We are all children of God who deserve to be happy. And if you are right now judging yourself for not being happy enough or healed enough - that is your disease talking.

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