Please note: I do not intentionally
exclude others' family customs or holy days but these articles are from
my personal experience and my own religious heritage. EMG
Surviving
Family Gatherings
Parents who expect their children to
be better behaved than usual when relatives are present are destined
for disappointment and frustration. Here are some things to keep in
mind if you will be taking children to visit relatives.
The
Perfect Gift for Kids
Most kids can name off forty items
advertised on television yesterday that they really, really, really
want. We could buy everything on their lists and Christmas could
still leave the family feeling empty, sad, and exhausted. The truth
is, there is no better gift to give our children during the holidays
than relaxed and loving time with the family. Children need their
parents' attention and love more than any gift. We found a way to do
it.
Christmas
Guidelines for Parents
Ten ideas for ensuring a happy holiday
season with children.
The
Truth about Santa
At some point in every child's life,
parents must face the BIG question, What do I tell my child about
Santa? When do I tell my child the truth? How do I tell my child
that mom and dad are really Santa?
The
Importance of Traditions, even New Ones
Christmas is a season, not just one
day of gift-giving. Traditions make the season rich with love and
sharing. Rejoice in your family traditions or create new family
traditions if you have none. The memories will last forever.
Simplify
Christmas and Enjoy It
Christmas spirit is willing but time,
money, and energy are limited commodities, even in December. As the
stress of over-extended calendars, bodies, and bank accounts begins
to build, tempers get short and angry words abound. Such situations
are not exactly the magic of our holiday dreams. There is a better
way for families to enjoy the holiday season.
Teaching
Greedy Children to Give
Giving is a rewarding experience but
how do we convey that message to our children? Children learn by
what we do, not by what we say. We can set an example of giving from
generosity and love if we want our children to develop a generous
heart. We can make the necessary plans for our children to
experience the joys in giving.
Don't
Expect a Perfect Family Christmas
In the middle of all my advice on how
to enrich the holidays for your family, I think it would be a good
idea to let you in on what things are really like in our house. Our
family life is like yours. Even during Christmas, things go well at
times and at other times, a wheel comes off.
Getting
Things Done with the Kids in Tow
When there is something really
important to be done, plan ahead for a children's activity to keep
them busy too. Don't expect kids to like being neglected or
understand just because your chores are "important". A
little time spent preparing "work" for them will enable
you to get your work done.
Christmas
Shoppping with Kids
Holiday shopping can be fun but it is
also exhausting, especially for small children. To make the season a
little brighter for the wee folk, remember to consider shopping from
their perspective. These Twelve Secrets of Successful Shopping Trips
were all learned from experience.
Age-Appropriate
Gift Ideas
Grandparents have a hard time deciding
what to give as Christmas gifts. This list is age appropriate and
guaranteed to please. Grandparent Giving Guidelines are also
included.
Let
Christmas End Slowly
With such a huge, commercial build-up,
children can easily be disappointed by an event that lasts less than
an hour. Christmas is more than opening gifts, or at least it should
be. Children need for Christmas to have a gentle conclusion. We need
to plan rituals and traditions for ending Christmas gradually.