If you answer yes to some of the 30 questions below, you may have a
sexual addiction problem. The more yes answers, the more likely the problem
is. If you would like more information about getting professional help to
determine if you have a sexual addiction problem, visit our
treatment section.
Remember, this test is for your own benefit and not intended to provide
any type of professional diagnosis. You need to see a doctor for that.
YES NO
1. Do you frequently fantasize or think about
sex?
2. Have you made promises to yourself or others to
change or stop some of your sexual behavior, and then broken these
promises?
3. Does your sexual desire cause you to associate
with people you wouldn't normally be with or do things you wouldn't
usually do?
4. Has frequenting sex sites on the internet for
sexual stimulation become a habit for you?
5. Do you frequently engage in sexual chat in
sexually oriented chat rooms on the internet?
6. Is masturbation a frequent activity for you?
7. Do you have or have you had an extensive
collection of pornography or other X-rated material?
8. Have you gotten rid of a pornography collection
and then started collecting it again?
9. Do you with some regularity rent (or buy or make
your own) X-rated videos?
10. Do you like to "channel cruise" on TV to find
sexually stimulating scenes, or do you subscribe to cable in order
to view sexually explicit programs? Or do you stare at scrambled
(blocked) sex channels for the occasional fragments of clear images
of sexual material?
11. Are you attracted to phone sex?
12. Do you frequent topless clubs?
13. Do you frequent modeling studios for sex?
14. Do you go to massage businesses where you are
able to obtain sexual massages?
15. Do you frequent adult bookstores for sexual
excitement or sexual activity?
16. Do you frequent, or have you frequented X-rated
movie theatres?
17. Do you frequent other sexually-oriented
businesses?
18. Does your regular sex partner frequently
complain about the amount of sex or the type of sex you desire with
him or her? If you really think about it, could your demands of your
partner be excessive or outside normal limits? Or, do you suspect
that your regular sex partner submits to your requests that may be
excessive but doesn't tell you?
19. Have you violated your marriage or other
relationship by having sex or affairs with others?
20. Are you especially excited by sexual behavior
that includes a risk of being caught?
21. Do you get a sexual thrill from exposing your
private body parts to unsuspecting onlookers?
22. Do you have a habit of trying to get forbidden
looks at people that give you sexual excitement?
23. Is anonymous sex with others a frequent
indulgence you seek, or one you periodically return to?
24. Do you take advantage of opportunities to
touch people sexually that you find attractive by touching them in a
way that makes it seem accidental?
25. Are you an adult who engages in sexual activity
with children?
26. Are you an adult who forces other adults to
have sex with you against their will?
27. Have you been, or could you be arrested because
of some of your sexual behavior?
28. Does some of your sexual activity cause you to
have a secret life hidden from significant others?
29. Does your sexual behavior or fantasy sometimes
make you feel hopeless or depressed?
30. Have you been told by someone that your sexual
behavior is excessive, inappropriate, or out of control?
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If you answered yes to more than one of these
questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a
resource or to attend a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your
needs.