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Inter-Dependence, Relationships

Self-Therapy For People Who ENJOY Learning About Themselves

NOTE: A few people have reported problems with how this page works (technically, in terms of how the links work, etc.).  Please write your answers on a separate piece of paper and, if you are one of the people who has a problem, write to me to tell me what happened and include the 10 answers to the questions.

If we can't fix the problem immediately, I will still be able to give you the results and you will get full benefit from completing the questionnaire ... Thanks!

Relationship Analysis Questionnaire 

  • PAY  CLOSE ATTENTION TO WHO IS DOING THE "WANTING."

  • EVERY ANSWER MUST BE A DIFFERENT NUMBER. 

  • PICK A SPECIFIC TIME PERIOD. 

  • USE THE EXAMPLES ONLY AS A GUIDE. 

LET THE NUMBER YOU CHOOSE REFLECT THESE MEANINGS:  
From 00 to 05 = "It doesn't happen" or "Not at all." 
From 06 to 15 = "It goes terribly." 
From 16 to 25 = "It goes very badly." 
From 26 to 35 = "It goes badly." 
From 36 to 45 = "It goes a little badly." 
From 46 to 55 = "It doesn't go well or badly. It's in the middle." 
From 56 to 65 = "It goes a little well." 
From 66 to 75 = "It goes well." 
From 76 to 85 = "It goes very well." 
From 86 to 95 = "It goes extremely well." 
From 96 to 100 = "It goes fantastically!"
 
The Questions 

In this situation... How does it go?
1. When you want to take care of the other person 
       Examples
  • "Can I get you a soda?"
  • "Would you like a back rub?"
  • "You look tired, let me put the kids to bed."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
2. When the other person wants to take care of you 
       Examples: 
  • "Can I get you a soda?"
  • "Would you like a back rub?"
  • "You look tired, let me put the kids to bed."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
3. When you want to be taken care of by the other person 
       Examples: 
  • "Can I get you a soda?"
  • "Would you like a back rub?"
  • "You look tired, let me put the kids to bed."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
4. When the other person wants to be taken care of by you 
       Examples: 
  • "Can I get you a soda?"
  • "Would you like a back rub?"
  • "You look tired, let me put the kids to bed."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
5. When you want to share opinions with the other person 
       Examples: 
  • "We deserve a vacation."
  • "Children should be seen and not heard."
  • "Our religion is best."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
6. When the other person wants to share opinions with you 
       Examples: 
  • "We deserve a vacation."
  • "Children should be seen and not heard."
  • "Our religion is best."
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
7. When you want to think clearly with the other person 
       Examples: 
  • "How can we get there from here?"
  • "Let's figure it out together."
  • "Will you explain to me how you did that?"
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
8. When the other person wants to think clearly with you 
       Examples: 
  • "How can we get there from here?"
  • "Let's figure it out together."
  • "Will you explain to me how you did that?"
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
9. When you want to have sex with the other person 
       Examples: 
  • Playfully teasing and inviting.
  • Sharing fantasies.
  • Having sex, making love, etc.
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart
10. When the other person wants to have sex with you 
       Examples: 
  • Playfully teasing and inviting.
  • Sharing fantasies.
  • Having sex, making love, etc. 
 
Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart

 
   

To find the Moment of Greatest STRESS in your relationship, add 5 points to your answers for #5 and #6... and subtract 5 points from your answers for # 9 and #10. Then find the LOWEST score out of all 10 questions and go to Moment of Greatest Stress.

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