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advertisement Chapter 33 of the book Self-Help Stuff That Works by Adam Khan: Interest is Life PEOPLE WHO ARE FULLY VITAL and alive and full of energy are interested. They’re pursuing an interest. The stronger the interest, the more vitality emanates from it. People without any interests at all are bored, tired and lifeless. Interest is everything. Here’s the problem: You can’t fake or force yourself to be interested in something. You can gently open yourself to be mildly interested, but you’re either strongly interested in something or you’re not, and it’s not up to you. It’s either there or it isn’t. There are subjects and activities which, if you pursued one of them, would awaken your sleeping vitality. But you may be ignoring them for “good reasons.” A woman I know liked to draw and was very good at it while she was still only in kindergarten. When she told her father she wanted to be an artist when she grew up, he said, “You don’t want to be an artist. Artists don’t make any money.” He dismissed the idea with so much certainty, she dropped her interest immediately. She cut it off, turned away from it. Many of us have had a similar experience. We turned away from what really interested us and now we don’t really know what interests us. We look around at our options and don’t see anything interesting because the thing that interests us is behind us, so to speak — we’ve turned out backs on it and can’t see it any more. I know a man who liked to sail as a youngster, but let it fade out of his life when he became an adult. He thought about it once in a while but figured he would do some sailing “later” when he had a lot of money and extra time (dream on dude). He recently decided to take up sailing, even on a small scale, and he has come alive. Boredom is death. Interest is life. Dig up that dormant interest. You know the one — you’ve dropped it or laid it aside for perfectly sound reasons. You might even feel it’s childish to pursue it. That’s the one. Pursue it, even a little, and your awakened interest will brighten your whole life. Pursue the interests that make you come alive. GIVE THE GIFT Wouldn't this book make a great gift for someone? So easy to read, so helpful. Twelve online bookstores now carry Adam Khan's new book, Self-Help Stuff That Works, including: BarnesandNoble.com Borders.com Books.com Amazon.com Why do people in general (and you in particular) not feel happier than our grandparents felt when they had far fewer possessions and conveniences than we now have? We've Been Duped What is the most powerful self-help technique on the planet? What single thing can you do that will improve your attitude, improve the way you deal with others, and also improve your health? Find out here. Where to Tap Would you like to be emotionally strong? Would you like to have that special pride in yourself because you didn't whimper or whine or collapse when things got rough? There is a way, and it's not as difficult as you'd think. Think Strong When some people get smacked around by life, they give in and let life run them over. But some people have a fighting spirit. What's the difference between these two and whydoes it make a difference? Find out here. Fighting Spirit advertisement   top table of contents | immediate relief of negative feelings | making changes stick share your favorite principle | my book

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