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Guided Imagery and Eating Disorder Treatment
by Joanna Poppink, M.F.T.
Guided imagery and other methods that reach under the conscious thinking
mind can be useful in helping people recover from eating disorders. People
with eating disorders often have secrets from themselves. These are secrets
about which they have little or no awareness.
Guilt, shame and severe self-criticism accompany most eating disorders.
People believe they are doing something weak and wrong by abusing themselves
with too much or not enough food, or by taking laxatives or vomiting, or by
compulsively exercising to work off calories. They can be merciless in their
self-punishing thoughts.
But eating disorders are not about food or being bad or deficient. Eating
disorders are usually about trying to protect oneself from unbearable fear.
This fear is so thorough and long standing that often people do not know
they are afraid. Even knowledge of their fear can be a secret from
themselves. The source of their fear and what their fear means is the secret
(or is among several secrets) that trigger the eating disorder behavior.
Guided imagery, done gently and respectfully, can be very helpful during
various phases eating disorder treatment.
I have used guided imagery for many years with clients who suffer from
nameless and bewildering fear and emotional pain. Many are women struggling
with various forms of bulimia. Going to a relaxed state and letting images
from the unconscious come forth is a way a person can say what they cannot
say, or even think, in the language of day to day conversation.
Being able to name our fears is the first and most important step in
being able to resolve them. Rather than feel helpless in the grip of fear,
we need to change our perspective so we can grasp what it is that frightens
us. To do that we must find a way to articulate those fears.
Guided imagery allows complex feelings to emerge in an understandable and
non-threatening way. At first, the specifics of the person's secrets remain
protected. At the same time, the person can use a metaphoric language to
name what has been nameless in their emotional lives.
For example, a woman may find herself in a lovely green meadow on a sunny
day. She happily walks on a path that becomes rockier as she proceeds. She
becomes increasingly anxious as the day gets darker. She approaches a
forbidding, neglected old house.
With no interpretation at all the psychotherapist can stay with the
person's experience. What the person feels and thinks in this imagery are
feelings and thoughts she has in her daily life. But in her daily life they
are not as precise and compact. And, most importantly, she does not examine
her experience with a trusted and trustworthy knowledgeable companion.
At an early stage the woman can explore the meadow and the path where she
feels happy and comfortable. Perhaps she can also look at where her path in
life feels rocky and dark, if she's ready. More likely it will take some
time before she can move with her fear to explore what the dark house holds
for her. As she explores her imagery with her psychotherapist, she gains
strength and confidence in her ability to stay present with her feelings.
She can move through some unconscious prohibitions and bring awareness to
the neglected structures within her.
Eating disorders serve the purpose of taking people away from their
intolerable feelings. Through imagery work with a reliable and dependable
psychotherapist, a client can develop more strength to tolerate her
feelings. As she learns to trust and rely on more of her own inner resources
she is able to come closer to a greater understanding of her underlying
fears and her secrets.
The more she can know and remain present with her feelings, the
less she needs her eating disorder as an escape. She learns to bear her own
human experience. She also learns to have respect and compassion for her
ability to rally her own strength to meet her fears.
Eventually meaning in her imagery will come forth. She will understand
her surface happiness, her dark, hidden fears and the lonely, hard road she
walks.
Over time she will also reap the benefits of experiencing the imagery
itself. She learns relaxation methods while in an anxious state. She
discovers that she can communicate and share with another human being while
experiencing intense feelings.
As she gains compassion and respect for her courage in exploring her
inner world, she decreases and finally stops her self-punishing thoughts. As
she learns to remain present to herself and other people while she is in an
intense emotional state, she increases her self-esteem. And as she faces and
resolves her inner terrors she no longer needs to use her old eating
disorder escape routes.
The road to recovery from eating disorders is complex. It requires
patience, time, compassion and support as well as a deep appreciation of
unconscious processes. Using guided imagery as part of the treatment can
help create links between the client and her unarticulated inner experience
that contributes to her eating disorders. Naming, understanding and
integrating those links are the essence of recovery.
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