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" K., "...when trying to focus on things I can't filter out noises... While typing this letter I can hear water dripping in the next room, the refrigerator turning on and off, and a car engine idling outside." And D., "I enjoy loud music, but only when I feel like it. I think that's why people think we are selfish at times."
Sensory Integration Newsletter reports, "Social events... puts the person with defensiveness in an uncomfortable situation... Almost all subjects described the discomfort experienced when someone's touch takes them by surprise... Many subjects describe shaking hands as unpleasant... When the touch or hug from comes from behind, it's effect is multiplied because of the element of surprise... and many need to exert self-control to avoid striking out at the person who touched them.
"M. shares, "I don't like being touched... even shaking hands is difficult... It's taken my husband years to learn how to touch me without provoking a negative response... Touching my head or hair is a no no!" A twist on this particular hypersensitivity comes from D. who says, "I am happy to say the hypersensitivity to touch, in the romantic sense, is more often a plus than a minus." And K. adds, "I don't mind shaking someone's hand, but forget hugging... Whenever someone hugs me, I tense up and my stomach gets tied up in knots... Being married my wife loves to be touched... I get all tied up when she hugs me or wants to be hugged or held... It tears me apart because I love my wife and yet for some reason want my space
"........"Most subjects described feeling uncomfortable in crowded places such as crowded elevators, buses, or subways, restaurants, stores, malls... Shopping is difficult for them", states Sensory Integration Newsletter. K. agrees by saying, "I have difficulty going into elevators, and detest having to go to malls, food stores, sporting events, etc... I get very overstimulated, overwhelmed and irritable until I'm free from crowded areas." D. states, "I notice that claustrophobia is more evident when I am somewhere I don't like to be, such as in a car on a trip of more than an hour." In some individuals there seems to be a connection between having ADD and being hypersensitive, as these cases indicate.
I would be interested in hearing from others of you out there who experience some of the same symptoms. I want to thank M., K., and D. for writing and sharing their personal experiences with us. I welcome your comments! If you would like to learn more about the ADDult Support Network, please send a self-addressed stamped business size envelope to 2620 Ivy Place, Toledo, Ohio 43613.
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